Sugar Sweet Thoughts

Did I leave the gym without wearing pants???

2011-02-25T09:47:00.000-06:00

Where oh where did my gym pants go?

Oh where oh where could they be?

I've been missing a pair of gym pants for over a week. I've looked in the clothes hamper, behind the recliner in our room, behind the pillows on the couch, under the bed, in Chris's closet, in my closet, at the bottom of Bella's diaper bag, in the bathroom, and even in the car - although I have no idea why they'd be there. I can't find them. Got me wondering...

did I wear them to the gym, take them off,

and leave without wearing any pants?

Let's face it, I have some pretty crazy moments... now I'm actually questioning my sanity... did I leave the gym w/o my pants? ;)

On the flip side, I found two pairs of shoes that I bought Bella

when she was first born. Now, they fit!

Lose a pair of pants - gain two pairs of shoes!

... Finally a post

2011-01-17T11:11:00.000-06:00

I'll admit that I haven't had the motivation to blog lately. I don't know if this will be a come back or just a one-time post. Who knows. Over the past few months I've had dozens of post ideas, but just never typed them out. Because it will take forever to catch you up on all of the details, here are a few highlights:

Bella is 5 months old. She's her own little person with her own big personality.
Everyone has opinions about what is right and wrong when it comes to babies... my opinion... do whatever you have to do to keep the baby happy, keep your own sanity, and to get some sleep! :)
Calvin is in kindergarten and doing fabulous! We're so proud of the progress he's already making. Who knew you learned how to read in Kindergarten?!?
The bond between Calvin and Bella is nothing short of amazing. She absolutely adores him. I think the highlight of her day is when he gets home from school!
I'm going to try making my own baby food. We'll see how that goes...
Chris is good. He's on a 30 day workout challenge using the EA Sports Personal Trainer for the Wii. Don't knock it til you try it... it's a good workout!
I am a stay at home mom. I love it. But, I'm not one of those stay at home moms that thinks I'm better than everyone else because I don't send my kids to daycare. Blah blah blah... I could further explain but it's not important enough. I admit that if the right part time job comes along, I'll take it.
Staying home with Bella all day can sometimes be exhausting. I explained it to Chris like this: If you had your boss or co-worker yell at you most of the day, you'd call it a bad day. Then, when you got home and the boss called to yell some more, you'd be annoyed. If your boss called you in the middle of the night to yell at you some more... you'd be annoyed and exhausted. I think he got it then. I love Bella to pieces, but I have to get a break. I think some full-time working moms think staying home is a breeze. I don't take my time home with the kids for granted. I think it's a blessing full of hard work.
Last week I joined the gym to get some alone time. Hopefully I get my old body and sanity back! Haha!

I've come across several good baby products, that I want to share with you.

I love the products from the Manhattan Toy Company like: Sweet Pea and Baby Stella. They are soft plush and machine washable
Bella has a JJ Cole Bundle Me Lite. We love it. It's not bulky like some winter infant seat thingies. It's like a fleece blanket in the car seat. I've seen the regular JJ Cole Bundle Me and it is very nice, too.
On of my favorites: Aden and Anais receiving blankets. I'll be the first to admit they are a little pricey, but for us, they are well worth the money. They get a really tight swaddle. They're made from cotton muslin - I'm no fabric expert - I just know they breathe more than some others, reducing the risk of SIDS. Bella's five months and we still use them all of the time - just not for swaddling. There's one in the car seat, one on the floor with her now, one in her swing, etc... and well, she likes to suck on them. They're fairly large, so I wouldn't recommend letting a baby have one in bed without being swaddled. Since Bella is so attached to hers, I ordered an Aden and Anais security blanket. I'm hopeful that she will like it as much as the swaddling cloths.
The third parent: Fisher Price Cradle n Swing. I'm not sure how we would have survived without this. It swings front to back and side to side. It's plush and comfy and perfect for the late nights when the baby won't go back to sleep. ;) She'll outgrow it soon and we'll be sad to pack it up.
She has this Taggie blanket and this Taggie book - Love them!
True newborn shoes from Children's Cottage. They are Baby Deer brand and can be customized with your baby's name - like we had done for Bella. They are itty bitty - perfect for newborns.
Do you love Carters brand baby clothes? Not sure if you already know, but in the past few months they got their own website. Even better is that an online Oshkosh site is linked from there - to use one shopping cart for two stores. Sign up for their emails - I'm always getting discounts emailed to me.
Tutus from The Pampered Princess Boutique. Bella has two!
Custom piggy banks from: Dizigns Etsy shop
Crocheted flower hair clips from: Mommys Love Bugs
I love these headbands from Little Diva Boutique
Hats from Boston Avenue Babies, Three Kittens Knitting, and Cite Fuzz
Burp cloths from The Posh Tots.
If you live locally, I highly recommend Over The Moon in downtown Effingham.

If you have a favorite baby item, please leave the link in a comment. I'm always up for suggestions.

Sweet Bella Sue

2010-09-08T20:23:00.000-05:00

One month ago today we were blessed with our precious little girl, Bella Sue O. She is perfect in every way imaginable. I'm not sure we could love her anymore or that any other baby has gotten as many kisses as she has. As if Mommy and Daddy's love wasn't enough for her, she is blessed with an outstanding big brother. Calvin absolutely adores her.

She was born August 8, 2010 at 2:33 a.m. via c-section. I got to the operating room at 2:08 a.m., she was born at 2:33, and I was being wheeled out at 2:58. Amazing how quickly it went! Chris was an amazing coach/confidence booster. I also had wonderful labor and delivery nurses. One stands out the most - she was my support during the spinal.

Bella Sue O. 6lbs 8oz ~ 19 1/2 inches ~ Perfect.

I'm not sure when I'll be back on here to blog. Being a mommy to a newborn is a lot of work - and when she's not keeping me busy, I try to get in some zzz's. Thank-you to our friends and family that have helped, sent well wishes, prayers, and gifts. :)

Day One - August 8, 2010

3 Days Old - August 11, 2010

5 Days Old - August 13, 2010

6 Days Old - August 14, 2010

Tommy Ordner Memorial Golf Outing

14 Days Old - August 22, 2010

16 Days Old - August 24, 2010

29 Days Old - September 6, 2010

1 Month Old - September 8, 2010

Where Do I Begin?

2010-07-23T15:12:00.000-05:00

So much has been going on lately. I have no idea where to even start this blog post. I've been a crappy blogger lately. Not only have I not posted in a long time - but I've been horrible about reading other blogs. Sorry. For those of you still following me... bless your hearts for sticking around. :)

The Great Fall

I had a stupid moment on June 24th. So stupid. The guys were re-roofing our house. They looked so hot and thirsty. So... being the nice lady that I am... I got ice cold water bottles out. The quickest way for me to get them up on the roof was for me to stand on a wooden chair on our deck and hand them to my brother Levi.
Great idea, right?
No.
The chair came out from under me. I hit my lower abdomen twice because the first time wasn't good enough. I landed pretty hard on my stomach. The neighbor seriously ran at olympic speed to get to me while the guys rushed to get off the roof. I laid there for a couple minutes... to catch my breath, get it all together, and put on a good face for Chris because I knew he was going to be really worried.

When I got inside it was 4:58... doctor's office was closed. At Dr. Haller's request, I went to the hospital and was admitted and sent to the OB floor to be monitored for awhile. Peanut was doing great - strong, regular heartbeat. The doctor had no concerns about her. I was having sizable contractions every 3 minutes. After a few hours of that, they put me on Procardia. It helped - the contractions slowed down to every 4-6 minutes. :) Luckily, I got sent home. The next day, word got back to the doctor's office that I was still having contractions so Niki called for me to come in for another non-stress test. Still contractions. Now, bed rest. Ugh.

It's been almost a month of "bed rest." Last week I was given permission to do a little more than just lay on the couch. I'll admit, I've probably been doing far more than I should - but it's hard to just lay around all the time. Dr. Haller has me on bed rest til Monday. Then, medicine for another week. Then, finally... nothing... let nature do its thing.

Calvin's T-Ball

Calvin has just 2 more t-ball games this season. Seems like he just started. He's pretty good - but then again, I'm pretty biased. I'm just so proud of the effort he puts forth out on the field. :)

Tommy's Golf Outing

August 14th is the 2010 Tommy Ordner Golf Outing at Cardinal Golf Course. Spots are filling up fast, so if you want to be a part of the coolest golf outing of the season, get your team together and call Cardinal Golf Course immediately! :)

Getting Ready For Peanut

Peanut will be here soon. Last week I had some really bad contractions one night. So bad that I thought it was possible my water might break! But all I could think about was that her pillow with her name embroidered on it wasn't finished. Silly, right?!? That's me. Since I couldn't sleep, I stayed up late hand stitching a sweet little pillow for her.

We have her name picked out. But, we're keeping it a secret. I hand painted the letters of her name to hang on her bedroom wall. They are very cute and can't wait to show them off when I can finally put them up after her arrival. Also, I ordered newborn shoes with her name embroidered on them. Very cute - absolutely love them.

A couple weeks ago, a beautiful cradle arrived from Mom and Grandma Bobbi. It's gorgeous. Thank-you so much for this awesome gift!

Everything is ready for her. Our bags are packed - including a gift bag for Calvin. Just waiting on one more thing to arrive to put in his bag - but if it's not here in time, it will be ok. Chris and I wanted to have a special present just for Calvin when the baby is born.

I think she'll be here sooner than later. I'm already starting to progress - I'll spare you those details. But, even with the medicine, I'm still having contractions - especially in the evenings. So, we're ready - for whenever she wants to come. :)

Kindergarten, Here We Come

In about a month, Calvin will be heading off to Kindergarten... no matter how ready or not I am. I still can't believe my baby boy is old enough for Kindergarten. Crazy. Just crazy. I already took him school supply shopping and ordered new school shoes. But where or where can I get a cool cammo backpack?!? Help, please!

The New Ride

Last night on our way to go test drive a car, I sold my car to Amber. Couldn't have been more perfect timing! She needed a dependable car - and we needed to sell it. And just in time because that car we were on our way to test drive... well, we bought it! :) We are the proud new owners of a Chrysler Aspen. I absolutely love it! :) It will definitely be able to pull the boat... and yes... it even has a Hemi! :) Perfect new ride for our growing family!

As we waited to drive the car, a couple CCX trucks drove by. I knew right then... that was my Dad, checking up on us. After we drove it, another CCX truck went by. Then, as we were getting on the interstate, a whole sleuth of CCX trucks passed us. Dad, I got your point. You liked the car. You approve. :) Thanks for still looking out for me. I miss you every single day. But, knowing you were right there with us as we bought the Aspen makes me feel very secure of our decision.

Trip, shopping, and the car

2010-06-17T09:16:00.000-05:00

I've been mia from the blogger scene lately. Sorry. Just haven't had the motivation to blog.

I'm doing good. Over 30 weeks prego, now. Actually have a check-up today. Peanut gave her Daddy an early Father's Day gift - Pix for Kicks! He loved it! We got to watch her move around in her own little world. I'll post pictures soon - or you can see them now at www.dropshots.com/cgoeckner. We have a DVD video of her and that has become our favorite movie.

Our trip to Michigan was good. Shopped too much (is there such a thing?), Detroit Zoo, Mackinac Island, dinners with friends, swimming, 4 trips to Bass Pro Shop, Pizza Papalis, a Latin mass, and some car trouble. Overall, we had a good time. But 10 days is a long time and it feels sooo good to be back home!

Tomorrow is cut & color day! I'm sooo looking forward to it!

My mom has been smoke-free for over 2 weeks now. I am sooo proud of her. Really. I never thought she'd quit. She's smoked for over 30 years. That's a long time. But, she proved me wrong and she did it. Now, I gotta pay up with a Michael Kors handbag! No complaints from me - it's worth it!

My car is still for sale. Price reduced: $3199 for a 2000 Buick Century. Call us at 217.813.0107 or 217.343.7115 for more details or to make an offer.

Car For Sale

2010-06-01T21:03:00.001-05:00

Ladies and Gents, I am finally selling my car!!! It's been a good car - reliable and I've always felt safe in it unlike many of those compact cars out there. Gas mileage has been amazing - going to Florida we got over 400 miles per tank! Interstate I've gotten low to mid 30's per gallon. Around town, more like mid 20's.

On one hand, I'm eager to get rid of it and move on to a newer family vehicle. On the other hand, I'm a little sad. Endings are always sad. This was the last thing I every bought with my Dad. He helped me buy it when I was just a single mother trying to make ends meet. I'll never forget his generosity.

Chris has maintained the car to his automotive expertise. He never even allowed me to take it to a quickie oil change place since I bought it in 2006. Oh, I forgot to put in the ad that the tires are less than a year old. That's a pretty big perk!

Get in touch with me if you're interested in it.

217.813.0107

217.343.7115

$3500.00 o.b.o

Help a fellow blogger out and tell your local friends

about this great deal!

Thank-you!!!

Things That Make You Go Mmmm...

2010-05-25T08:48:00.000-05:00

Some things just have to be shared with friends.
Especially something as rich, fudgy, and decadent
as Betty Crocker Warm Delights!

You are 45 seconds away from pure ecstasy.
Directions:

Mix cookie mix and 1 Tablespoon of water.
Microwave for 45 seconds.

Hide in the closet to eat alone - it's too good to share!

I've only had the Fudgy Chocolate Chip Cookie Warm Delight.
It's delicious beyond words -
especially right out of the microwave.
If you're having a rough day
or just want to spoil yourself a little, give 'em a try.

Taco Bell Cravings

I'm having crazy Taco Bell cravings. What started out as 3 soft shell tacos has quickly escalated to 5. And since I've been to Taco Bell about 5 times in the last week, I decided I needed to find an alternative to make at home. Although Taco Bell's not outrageously priced - at the rate I visit, it'll be wearing on the budget soon.

Meat already prepared for at home fajitas or quesadillas may be old news to you - but for me, this is all new. :)

I picked up both of these products - cooked them separately - Chicken for Calvin - Steak for me. Each took about 5 minutes to heat up in the skillet (you can microwave them, too). Then, I put Calvins between 2 tortillas and added cheese. Voilla - quesadilla. For mine, I mixed up a McCormick fajita mix packet - adding only about 1 1/2 tablespoons to my sizzling steak pieces. I refrigerated the rest of the mix for future use.
Added cheese to my fajita and I was
a happy pregnant Taco Bell craving woman! :)

I had wondered what the quality of the meat would be. To my surprise, the John Soules Foods Beef Fajitas exceeded my expectations. Delicious. The Tyson Chicken - was good - but not quite as good as freshly grilled chicken.
But, for the price and convenience I'm happy.

Foot Heaven

2010-05-17T18:59:00.001-05:00

What's keeping your toes, arches,
and heels comfy this spring?

Mine are in foot heaven thanks to Malindi Crocs!

I've always wanted a pair of crocs - not the regular ones that are wide and bulky, but a petite style for my little feet that are comfortable and fashionable at the same time. I've tried a couple different kinds of Crocs in the last couple years. I didn't have a lot of faith in the Malindi's, but I ordered them anyway. They arrived and are a dream come true for my tired, aching, pregnant feet. I absolutely love them and wear them just about everywhere.

They're a lot more narrow than normal Crocs which is a huge perk for me. They don't slide off the back at all. They fit like a glove! Also, the Malindi Croc is more true to size than other Crocs. I've learned that for most Crocs, you should round down when ordering - like if you're a 6 1/2, order a 6. Not the Malindi's. I wear a 6 in regular shoes and in this Croc. I ordered mine at Crocs.Com, but you can get them at lots of online shoe stores like Zappos and Shoebuy. Also, my cousin Kayla said Dick's in Champaign sells them, too.

Mom, I'm pretty sure I know you're going to order some - because you fell in love with mine. :)
Dawn, order them - you will love them more than any of the dozens of flats you already have! I promise!
Aubrey, order them because your pregnant feet deserve some relief.
Bridget, order them because they're cute and stylish and super comfy while you're on your feet all day.
Amy, order them because you're Super Mom and you deserve to pamper your feet!
Steph, order them because they'll be perfect for all of your camping excursions this summer!

I should be thankful

2010-05-17T09:36:00.000-05:00

I am having severe sinus pressure.
Okay, severe may be a little strong - but intense.
I'm pretty sure there's a sinus infection setting in.
I barely slept last night because of the discomfort.
Take medicine?
Good idea!
But, I'm weird about meds when I'm prego.
I worry too much.
I'm a paranoid mommy.
So, I decide to suck it up and deal with the pain.
Sinus rinses will start to help sooner or later... I hope.
To make it all worse,
It's raining
And I'm out of Cap'n Crunch.
I am trying to remind myself that I should be thankful that this sinus crap didn't settle in during the last couple weeks of school, during finals, or even during graduation. I should be thankful, right?

Kindergarten Walk-Thru

2010-05-16T21:10:00.000-05:00

Friday afternoon Calvin and I got to walk through the Kindergarten classrooms. I know most of the teachers which made it all the easier. Calvin liked Mrs. J the most after he found out she's related to Uncle Jerry. Then there was Mrs. H. He loved her because she's Tricia's aunt. The whole walk through was fun and exciting. The smart boards are really cool! Calvin is looking forward to using them next year!

My question: Why are these kids so big and why do they know how to read???

I'm seriously wondering if they had 2nd and 3rd graders fill in for the Kindergarteners during the walk-thru. I can't imagine my sweet baby Calvin growing up so much in the next year. Wow. Where have the last 4 1/2 years gone? Can I pause life right here?

That.Kid - And A Quest

2010-05-05T19:03:00.000-05:00

I do not want "That Kid."
You know, the one that never listens.
The one that thinks it's acceptable to talk back to adults.
The one that nobody wants around.

I pride myself on having a phenomenally well behaved son. Yes, I am bragging. Calvin is very well behaved. I am a parent first, friend second. I set clear expectations and expect clear results. I instill into him the philosophy that every choice has a consequence - good or bad. I find myself agreeing 9 times out of 10 with the parents on the t.v. show World's Strictest Parents.

Some of you are rolling your eyes saying, "He's only four!" Well, you're right. He's only 4. But he's the best behaved 4 year old I've ever met. I look around at children much older and heck - even adults and wonder how they turned out the way they did. That fuels my strict parenting. My ultimate goal isn't to create a good kid - it is to create a good adult.

This process started shortly after birth. He's always known what was expected of him. At age two, Calvin knew how to stand at attention. This sounds harsher than it really is. I got tired of trying to discipline or explain things to him while he lost focus. Standing at attention keeps him focused. It also makes the whole process a lot quicker. At age three, we implemented push-ups in time-out. What's the point of time-out if the child can see the t.v., play with his feet, or whatever else? I decided to make time-out purposeful with 5 or so push-ups. Besides, who couldn't use a few push-ups now and then? By the way, his push-ups are far from military standards - more like his little but is humping the ground - but whatever, it is productive. ;)

My strict parenting style has been criticized by a few people. But, when I remind these people of how well behaved Calvin is, they can't disagree that my style works. It works for us. Every family is different. Every child is different.

Let me take a moment to remind you of the dozens of posts on this blog displaying my love for Calvin and all of the fun adventures we go on. He does not do without love or affection. He has been the center of my world for the past four years. I absolutely adore him. He's an amazing son, role model, and friend.

I am not the most patient person. One day God will grant all of my prayers for patience. ;) Until then, I'm on a personal quest to become a more patient mother. I'm looking forward to enjoying a Summer with Calvin. I'll keep you posted. Wish me luck!

School.Prom.Dirt.Painting.Bag.Popsicles

2010-05-02T16:32:00.002-05:00

Lots happening at the O house. Just haven't had the motivation to blog about it. Spring semester is almost over! YAY! I will be graduated in less than 2 weeks!!! :) Getting excited! 2 big projects due this week but I'm not the least bit motivated to get them done. In normal Christina fashion, I'll likely procrastinate until the last minute. But, I have no doubts that the sites will be fabulous in the end. Bring on the A's! :)

Tiffany's Prom

My sister.
Stunningly beautiful.
Junior Prom, 2010.

Yard Work

With help from family and his #1 helper, Calvin, Chris has been moving dirt into our backyard. I have been assured that soon... very soon... we will have a lush green lawn. :) For now, Calvin's enjoying all the dirt!

Peanut's Room

First, the bedding.
I love it! Found it online at JCP.
The embroidered butterflies remind me a lot of my late cousin, Heather.
So, it's extra special.
Also, the bed...
You could say it was love at first sight.
Babi Italia from Babies R Us.
Thanks again to Mama O for letting us raid her attic
to trade in old items to get 25% off items like this bed!

What wrong with painting in your underwear???

Proudly painting his little girl's room.

My two favorite guys got to work Saturday.
After putting 7 different paint samples on the wall, we decided on Fairway Mist (green).
I'm excited to get the room finished.
More projects including wainscoating (sp?) soon.
Special thanks to Chris for all of his hard work!!!

The diaper bag! :)
After looking high and low and comparing diaper bags of friends,
I decided on this Bella Tunno.
She arrived in the mail on Friday.
Fun. Stylish. Me.
Love it! :-)

Don't want to leave Mimi out of this post!
Mom, thanks for all of the gifts you've given Peanut!
She's sure to know exactly how much you love her!
Thank-you.

Well, I am officially 24 weeks prego!

I've gained a whopping 10lbs.

I'd been putting off wearing maternity clothes. Let's face it, they're not exactly figure friendly. But I guess I needed to face the facts: My figure isn't the same it was pre-prego! I'd been using the good ole fashion rubber band trick on my jeans. Works pretty good in the a.m. but by late afternoon my pants would get a little snug. This afternoon I finally busted out a pair of maternity capris. Wow. Relief. Comfort. Felt so good that I was inspired to find more comfy maternity capris and shorts. And since Effy's selection of affordable maternity clothes is limited, to say the least, I turned to the world wide web from the comfort of my couch.

Ever bought maternity clothes??? They're not cheap! Okay, maybe it's just me... I'm weird about spending money on certain things like maternity clothes. After looking at several sites, I ended up at walmart.com. I'm quickly on my way to being the size of a beached whale - so why do I care what brand the tag says? Anyway, their maternity shorts and capris are really inexpensive in comparison to other stores. They'll be here mid-week. I'll post to let you know if they're worth a darn or if I should have splurged at Motherhood Maternity.

I think I'm over my friend egg cravings. For several weeks, Chris made me 2-6 fried eggs each day. Yes, I know... you are wondering how I got so lucky to end up with a husband that is willing to do so much for me. All I gotta say is... it's luck. Really. I probably don't deserve him. He's a phenomenal husband and father. I'm just really lucky he picked me. :)

No new really strong cravings. Loving popsicles (especially Jelly Belly Lemon) and Tropical Sno. Yummy!

Kleenex's... A No Go!

2010-04-12T12:32:00.000-05:00

For years I've wondered if I'm allergic to kleenex's - tissues of any kind, not just the brand. My typical allergies would flare up, I'd blow my nose... and then it would feel like I had a tickle in my nose so I'd try to blow more and more and more. But, the tickle would never go away. I wondered if the tissues were triggering it. I mean, tissues are made from paper and paper has dust - so it's not out of the question to wonder. So today I asked Dr. Ames. I tested positive to Puffs Plus Lotion and the generic tissues she has at her office. Although I wish I had been wrong, I'm not surprised.

Not gonna go on and on...

2010-04-12T09:05:00.000-05:00

I'm not going to go on and on about this topic. So, I'll keep it brief. The other day I came across an article about Third-Hand Smoke in the latest American Baby magazine. I'd always wondered if there was such a thing as third-hand smoke - you know, the toxins left on objects and the atmosphere after someone smokes - particularly on their clothes, hair, or in their home. I mean, you can smell a smoker a mile away - well, you know what I mean - so wouldn't this mean there could be cigarette toxin remains on the person? The article suggested having smokers change their clothes after smoking if they're going to hold a baby. This article got me interested and I went on to research the topic a little more.

I came across an article from the Scientific American. It did a good job of summing up the facts and making sense of it all. I found it extremely informative and urge you to read it. You'll likely be surprised with the findings.

"...the cocktail of toxins that linger in carpets, sofas, clothes and other materials hours or even days after a cigarette is put out—is a health hazard for infants and children."

Unorthodoxed Treatment

2010-04-08T08:46:00.001-05:00

If you know me personally - or if you read my blog much, you probably realize that I'm pretty opinionated - especially, if I'm particularly passionate about something. So, here goes!

I will admit that at first I was very skeptical of Dr. Ames' unorthodoxed medical treatment methods. I'm a logical type of girl and need to see and understand something to believe in it - usually. This is the exception. I don't understand how her treatments work, but they just do - or atleast they have for me and several other people I know.

I started going to see Dr. Ames a couple years ago for my intense seasonal allergies. I've been known to have to call in sick to work in the past because of allergies - they were that bad. She did a series of non-invasive treatments on me and - Voilla - allergies were gone. So far, I'm cured of my pollen and tree allergies. I'm still allergic to grass, which we're working on now. Each Spring I go to her for 3-6 treatments over a short period of time and then I don't have allergies. It works for me. No more medicine!

Tuesday as I was driving Calvin to his appointment with Dr. Ames. My right eye was practically swollen shut from my allergies. Vision in my left eye was iffy. Guess I probably shouldn't have been driving - but I knew if I got to her office, she'd get me in and I'd feel better. I was thrilled to walk out of her office with NO eye irritations and absolutely no swelling!

Calvin is another success story. I took him for an issue - but turns out that can't be treated... however, while she was trying... she got his right and left brain to communicate and got his comprehension and focus on the right track. I had no idea she could do this stuff. I was skeptical to say the least. But, after only TWO visits, he started SPELLING on his own! I'll be honest, I'm kind of a lazy Mom that doesn't work on his academics much - he goes to pre-k. So the fact that he picked up on spelling from a video game and retained the information is wondrous to me!

The kind of treatment she did for Calvin is the same treatment she does for children with ADD, ADHD, and other similar disorders. Although these appointments aren't free - I think she's a better alternative to medicine for children and worth every penny.

Dr. Ames and Dr. Andrea can treat lots of different issues. And if they can't, well - from what I've seen, they'll sure try! Some issues I know they help with: allergies, to quit smoking, to get pregnant, depression, chronic colds, stomach/digestive problems, and learning hold-backs.

I don't expect you to be a believer just from reading my post. All I gotta say is, Don't Knock It Till You Try It! If you're looking for an alternative treatment or if you think you're out of options, consider giving them a try: (217) 347-5455.

Thoughts...

2010-04-06T00:26:00.000-05:00

I haven't had the energy or focus to blog lately. Sorry if you've been waiting for some profound post.
Spring Break flew by!

Now that I only have 1 more day, I'm rushing to get all of my homework finished!

Easter was nice. We got to see a lot of family - which is a blessing.

The Easter Bunny brought lots of Woo-hoo bars a.k.a. Reese's Eggs - Yummy!
Pix aren't posted yet... soon.

Spring's here!

I'm enjoying the beautiful weather from inside my house. Allergies suck!

My heart is breaking for Dawn and her family.

Marilyn was an amazing woman that put up an admirable fight against lung cancer. Still, I can't believe her fight is over.
Please send hugs and prayers Dawn's way.

My Mom's father-in-law passed away last week.

We have 2 funerals this week.

We've made it to the official half way mark! 20 weeks!

I said we were half way at 19 - Calvin came 3 1/2 weeks early on his own and the doc was going to induce me 3 weeks early if he didn't come by then. So, I'm expecting similar with Peanut.
I'm up 1 pound from pre-prego weight!
I think I have a diaper bag picked out! That's uber important!
We have her name narrowed down to two.

Her name is a secret.

Chris is quite possibly the best husband in the world!

I've been craving fried eggs - and since he makes the world's best eggs, I only eat ones he makes.
Never once has he complained about the daily egg routine right before we go to bed. He doesn't even complain that I eat them in bed!

Bridget gave me a fantastic cut & color - I'm a blonde again!

Last week she gave me a mani & pedi! I feel so pampered!
Become a fan of The French Quarter Salon and Day Spa on Facebook for chances to win free services!

If you call on April 6th to schedule a pedi, you'll get $5.00 off!

The wait is over... Peanut is a...

2010-03-25T08:43:00.001-05:00

Yesterday we found out
that Peanut is a little GIRL!!! Calvin's getting a little sister!

The sonogram went very well. I already think she's perfect and beautiful. She got my gift of gab... she appeared to be talking to us during the sonogram. It was so cute! Once, when Calvin was talking she gave him a thumbs-up! She's quite the entertainer - we watched her do summersaults and leg kicks. Like I said... perfect.

Chris smiled ear to ear through the sonogram. He's a proud Daddy that's already worrying about all the stuff Dad's worry about with a little girl.

We were able to share the news with family last night. I think my Mom is pretty excited!!! This will be her first granddaughter. This will also be my Grandma Betty & Grandpa Larry's first great-granddaughter. Family suprprised us with gifts for the new baby. Aunt Wendy even brought gifts for a boy or a girl... the outfits are sooo cute!

We're all very happy and excited about our new addition. Life sure will change around here with a little girl!

Merv The Perv

2010-03-23T10:09:00.000-05:00

So, I'm always calling Chris Merv The Perv... and for good reason... ;-) Anyway, a couple weeks ago, Calvin started saying it, too. I know... at this point I should have stopped and taught him that wasn't something appropriate to say, but I didn't - so sue me.

This morning Chris and I were laying in bed when Calvin came in to tell us Good Morning. I called Chris Merv the Perv again - and Calvin said HE was Merv the Perv!!! I told him there's no way he was - just Chris. Well, this led to a flood of questions like, "What makes him Merv the Perv?" I told Calvin that Chris is Merv the Perv because he's always trying to hug and kiss me. Calvin only reiterated the point that this also made him Merv the Perv because he gives me lots of hugs and kisses.

It was funny. We were all laughing.

Then, he insisted that he and Chris were not Merv the Perv... that I was because I'm always hugging and kissing Chris. Even after I explained that only boys can be Mer the Perv, he refused to let it go. We laughed as he marched in circles singing, "Mom's Merv the Perv all through the town!"

The.Bump.

2010-03-13T19:21:00.001-06:00

For my Blogger friends, pix of my baby bump

Today we are 17 weeks!
Peanut is really growing.
And moving!
I started feeling movement last week.
It's an amazing miracle.
I picture the baby doing acrobats in my belly
every night around bed time. :-)
I can't wait for the movements to get a little more ponounced
so Chris and Calvin can feel, too.

My belly is growing, that's for sure!
Trust me, the shirt conceals it a bit.
The rough first trimester has left me negative 1lb pre-prego weight.
I have no doubt I'll gain my fair share...
especially since Homewood Grill's open, now!

It seems like the weeks are flying by!
Before I know it, I'll be holding baby Peanut in my arms.

Gone Crafty!

2010-03-06T15:11:00.007-06:00

Time to finally share 2 crafty projects. :-)

The first is a shelf with coat hooks for our laundry/utility room.

We ordered the shelf from The Old Country Cupboard.

They're super friendly and easy to work with.
Plus, their prices are awesome!

You get handmade products for a reasonable price!

With a few small modifications of a peg shelf,
I got exactly what I wanted:

a shelf with no coat hooks or pegs.

Last year, Chris ordered me a quilt rack form the same place.

Love it! Definitely check out their site!

Then, I picked out glass door knobs on ebay
in purple and green.

Since they're not real vintage - only vintage replica,

they were very reasonably priced!

Once everything came in, my Handy Dandy Husband

attached the door knobs to the shelf
and mounted it to the wall.

Voilla! We love it!

I got a freebie bench from Mom.

Slapped some green paint on it
and it looks pretty good under the shelf.

PROJECT 2

This is a project I started over 6 months ago. I finally got around to finishing it today. :-)

The shelf with hooks (perfect for my aprons) was a freebie from Mom. It's amazing all of the cool stuff I find laying around at Mom's! Thanks, Mom!

I spray painted the metal parts silver and painted the wooden shelf a fun pink! Mom wasn't so hip on the idea, but I guarantee she's going to love the finished product!

I purchased 12" letters E-A-T and then followed an online tutorial to mod podge craft paper to the letters. They're not perfect, so don't look too close! But, they're cute and they're fun. And I made them myself so I'm pretty proud of them.

I found the old milk jug at an antique store while out with Dawn one day. It completes the look!

It's like I have nothing to blog about... but I do

2010-03-02T07:31:00.000-06:00

I've not been very bloggy lately. Been in a little bit of a funk. Between being a sick & pregnant and missing my brother in law, I just haven't been able to muster up anything to blog about. Here are a few things:

We are 15 weeks pregnant! I think I'm starting to feel a little better. I had what felt like a really bad hangover for over 13 weeks! Ugh.
Me pregnant = me fainting. I've only fainted once. Thank goodness! But, I get dizzy at the drop of a dime.
Chris is like Super Husband right now! He's been taking really good care of me. :-)
I pre-registered Calvin for Kindergarten. Still undecided if he'll go 1/2 or full day next year. He'll be a two year Kindergartener.
This is my last full week in AOP and PD!!! I'm so excited! There's a crap ton of stuff due this week, but I'll get through it! Looking forward to being done!
I had a mock interview for PD class last week. The interview went sooo well that she offered me the Summer Internship! I had to pass it up because of the baby's arrival in August. But still... I am hugely flattered! :-)
Our washing machine crapped out on us Saturday. Now we have one of those fancy front loaders. It holds a ton more than our old washer! I think I could fit all of our bedding (minus comforter) in one load!
Peanut loves McDonald's!!! OMGosh the baby loves McD's! On the way to school I get 2 hashbrowns and a sweet tea. For the drive home I get a fish fillet (minus the tarter)! Mmmmm! Delicious!
I could go on and on about how much we're missing Tommy. Really. Sunday was one month. The month flew by but it's like the hours went by so slowly. It was the longest and shortest month ever. My inlaws are in Mexico on vacation (planned before the incident). I'm happy they were able to get away. They needed it. Maybe after graduation we can get away for a few days. It's tough watching Chris miss his brother so much. We've had so many, "Just call Tommy to help..." moments. You don't realize how much you rely on someone else until they're gone.
I saw my Dad. I was driving back from Effingham (McDonald's) Friday morning after I dropped Calvin off for school. I was at the stoplight before Goeckner Bros and there was my Dad, driving a semi. I bawled all the way home. Maybe because I was sad, but maybe because I was so happy to see him... with his grumpy face. :-) That night I saw him again. Same intersection, he was turning to go home (or back towards the direction he came from that morning). I'm looking forward to seeing him again soon.

Hello 2nd Trimester!

2010-02-21T19:28:00.000-06:00

Week 14 Day 2:

We're in our 2nd trimester!

This is exciting and a huge milestone. Our chances of miscarrying is significantly lower, now. That puts a big smile on my face. :-)

In other news, I'm starting to get my appetite back. After nearly 14 weeks of eating next to nothing thanks to morning sickness that lasted 24/7, I can finally eat! The doctor prescribed anti-nausea meds at 8 weeks and they helped me from throwing up all the time, but I still couldn't eat much. I'd be like totally starving and then be able to only put down 5 or 6 bites of food. But, it's getting better! I'm a lot hungrier these days. :-) Still not able to eat a lot in most sittings, but I'm able to eat several times throughout the day.

For the record, I'm still negative 4lbs from pre-prego. I'm sure I'll start gaining weight soon!

Calvin's really excited about the baby. He prays for Peanut a lot. It's pretty cute. We're taking him with us to the doctor on Wednesday so he can hear the heartbeat. He's really looking forward to it.

A 25% Off Sale!

2010-02-10T09:15:00.001-06:00

Babies R Us is having a pretty cool sale right now. Just trade in any old car seat, stroller, travel system, high chair, play yard, toddler bed, bassinet, or crib and get 25% off Any New one!!! FYI: The stuff can be pretty old! We traded in some old stuff we got from Chris's parent's house. We were able to get 25% off our crib and car seat! If you're thinking about getting a jogging stroller for the Spring, now's a good time - just trade in any old one (or anything on the list) and get 25% off! It's such a good deal that I had to share it with you guys!

On The 3rd Day of My Birthday Week...

2010-02-08T19:56:00.001-06:00

Welcome to Day 3 of my Birthday Week.

It officially started Saturday, February 6th when Chris whisked me away to Terre Haute for lunch at Olive Garden and some browsing at some stores followed by dinner with my inlaws that even included the Happy Birthday tune!

Inspite of everything going on, Chris took the time to give me a great birthday. :-) My actual birthday was yesterday, February 7th. We went to church with family, lunch with my grandparents, shopping, and dinner at Lone Star! It was a pretty terrific birthday - especially considering the circumstances.

Calvin singing Happy Birthday to me.
I can't figure out how to flip the video to portrait - sorry.

Onto the gifts...

FIRST: I guess I better announce to the Blogger World that we are expecting baby Peanut!!! We are 12 weeks pregnant and everything is going very well. Peanut is scheduled to arrive August 21st.

Since we're so excited about the baby, I insisted that my gifts be for Peanut. Chris got me the deluxe, mega, luxury baby swing. It's so awesome - seriously, if they made them big enough for me we'd probably replace the Natuzzi sofas with these swings!!! ;-) Calvin got Peanut a cute toy, too. I love my gifts!

Our anniversary was last week and we'd promised nursery furniture to each other as a gift. So, on my birthday we headed to Terre Haute to Babies R Us to order the bed that I just had to have (seen the day before and couldn't find it anywhere else). After the drive home and a few minutes of rest, Chris and Calvin took me to Lone Star for dinner - then DQ ice cream cake!

I have to give Chris mega kudos for making my birthday so special. He's an amazing husband that truly gets the whole Birthday Week experience. Thank-you. :-)

"I may not be perfect..."

2010-02-05T12:14:00.001-06:00

Many of you already know that last week Chris lost his little brother, Tommy in a tragic farm accident. It is devestating and the family is still deep in mourning. Life changed in a blink of an eye and things will never be just like they were before. There will always be a void in our lives. Tommy was an amazing son, brother, uncle, cousin, and friend. Looking back on all of the memories, nobody could come up with even one bad thing to say about Tommy. The stories shared by his closest friends are some of the funniest. We look forward to hearing even more.

I've tried to think of the right words to share, but so far I've come up empty handed. So, I want to share part of Tommy's obituary written by close family members: People listened when Tommy spoke. When he did speak, it was "right on," ... sometimes teasing, sometimes just the thing to say to make you smile. Thus that gorgeous smile spread to those around him. Family was first for Tommy. He enjoyed going out with his friends; but if there was a family gathering, he was there. Tommy the son made his parents proud. As an uncle, cousin and nephew, he spread big love. Tommy the brother, Tommy the friend, was reliable and protective; he showed up just when you needed him, with that grin, or if necessary, a tough look. Tommy the grandson shoveled driveways, mowed lawns and played cards. He was their Mr. FixIt. Friends and family describe him as "the type of person to drop everything to help out in times of need." A beautiful smile entered heaven Thursday. We speculate that Grandpa O. greeted him and introduced him to a few pinochle players. They are probably already on their second game. While we wish we could have played one last game with him too, we thank you for your smile Tommy. We will remember how you spread it and will continue spreading that special love.

The family will be eternally grateful for the amount of community support during and after the rescue efforts. Friends and family from across the nation came together to celebrate Tommy's life this last week... a life that we will always feel ended too soon, but also a life that was filled with love and happiness. The family definitely feels all of the prayers you have been saying. Thank-you.

A friend of the family shared a quote from Tommy that really made us smile:

"I may not be perfect
but I am Tommy O."

... You lint licker!

2010-01-17T16:15:00.001-06:00

Who are you calling a Cootie Queen, you Lint Licker!!!

I absolutely LOVE this commercial. It's like my new "Mary-jane" joke. I just can't stop laughing... seriously crack up every single time I see iit! :-) I hope it makes you smile!

Wishful Thinking

2010-01-15T14:44:00.000-06:00

Today a guy walked into class to tell us someone's car had exploded and was on fire in the parking lot... the same parking lot my car was in. A little piece inside me got all giddy at the idea that my car went up in flames, we'd be able to collect on some insurance money, and finally - finally Chris wouldn't be able to argue about getting a new vehicle.

Our class walked outside. The car was a row or two closer than I remembered parking mine. And then someone announced it was a brown Grand Prix. Darn... it wasn't a green Buick Century... :-(

Turns out I was parked across from the flame-hog car... yes flame-hog because it couldn't spare a couple flames for my car. Selfish jerk! ;-) I did a thorough look over of my car... and absolutely nothing. It's like it's invincible or at least fire proof. ;-)

Doesn't look like I'll be getting a new car anytime soon... better luck next time a car blows up in the parking lot!

Random Thoughts

2010-01-14T16:36:00.000-06:00

A picture of me and Calvin Christmas weekend.
I haven't shared pix in a long time. :-)

This morning Calvin weighed himself then yelled, "Mom, I lost 5 pounds!" I cracked up laughing. First, he can't read numbers and subtract - so he has no idea if he gains a few or loses. And second, when did 4 year olds start obsessing about their weight?

This semester is officially the hardest and most demanding semester of my life! I'm so overwhelmed by all of the work. And with 6 hours in each of 2 classes (12 hrs total between them ea. week plus another class) I'd expect to be able to get all the required work done in class. Wrong. I'm disappointed, discouraged, and a little ticked off that there's so much redundant work to be done that I have to work on it outside of the classroom.

Mom came over today to watch Calvin bowl and all that on the Wii Sports Resort - then watched me master the hula hoop on the Wii Fit! I couldn't convince her to give it a try... maybe next time!

TGIW!

2010-01-13T07:30:00.002-06:00

Boy oh boy am I glad it's Wednesday! Spring semester started Monday - I can tell already it's going to be a demanding one - atleast Mod I. I'm taking 2 required business Mod I classes (16 weeks of material crammed into 8 weeks) and a Web Graphics Design course. I think I'll enjoy the graphics class. We're going to learn some pretty cool stuff - and even blog about it at Wordpress! But the business classes... they're so much work, and in my opinion a lot of repetitive work we've learned in previous classes. For the most part, I'm a quick learner. Learn it, practice it, use it, move on. So doing the same things over and over will take a lot of patience and soft skills I'm not used to using.

I have to arrange for my 30 intern hours soon. Shouldn't take me too long to get those done. Then, Mod II when I'll wrap up my intern hours, finish the Web Graphics Design course, and a final Graphics Capstone course where I'll put all of my skills to work... and then... GRADUATE!!! :-)

Hoping this semester flies by lickity split! Can't wait to be finished!!!! To all my school buddies, I hope you're having a good start to your 2010 Spring semester. Looking forward to graduating with many of you in May!

Thoughts for 2010

2010-01-03T17:33:00.000-06:00

It's 2010. It's still weird to me. The last 10 years have been an amazing adventure. And I look forward to even bigger adventures in the next decade. The best part is that I have Chris to share all of my new endeavors with.

There's so much I want to do in the next 10 years, including:

Complete our family.
Travel to D.C., NYC, and take a Disney Cruise.
Pay off most of our mortgage.
Make a hefty contribution to our retirement fund.

Over the past couple weeks I've really thought about how I want to change. I feel a new decade is a good time to make some changes. I want to renew my faith in God. Sometimes life distracts me, and that's no excuse at all. A little more time praying, being thankful, and helping others will help.

Also, I want to stop being such a control freak. If only I could change everyone to be exactly what I think they should be... but, I can't. And it's their lives. I have to back off and let people just live their lives. In some cases, this means letting go and moving on.

Patience. I have none. Really. And it's time I work on it. A whole lot of prayer and self help books should help. Chris and Calvin deserve a more patient me. It's going to take some time, but I am confident I can become more patient.

Finally, I want to focus on me and my family. I spend entirely too much time solving everyone else's problems. It's tiring and stressful. And I'm tired of it. I'm here as a friend to many - and that will never change. But, I am not a therapist. If you need one, I'm happy to refer you to mine. ;-) We are a regular family with our own issues. And it's time I put more focus at home instead of getting wrapped up in everyone else's drama.

Overall, I'm looking forward to making changes for the better. I'm eager to become the New Christina.

We Wish You A Merry Christmas And A Happy New Year!

2009-12-28T10:33:00.002-06:00

Christmas 2009 has come and gone. I'm a little sad it's over already. At the same time, it's nice to slow things down. Our Christmas was nothing short of wonderful. With Christmas being on a Friday, the gatherings were spread out over 4 days -- giving us ample time at each place to visit with family. Family is by far the best part of Christmas. It was nice to catch up with everyone.

I have so much to share of our Christmas
so I'll sum it up in a list.

The food - oh the food! Each gathering had decadent food spreads. Made me feel so blessed as I remembered those less fortunate that didn't have a warm meal this holiday season.
Grandma and Grandpa joined us for Christmas Eve mass at Bishop.

It's my favorite mass of the year, but always brings tears to my eyes as I remember my friend Holly. She is still very missed by friends and family.

Everyone over did it on the gifts.

I'm not sure what Calvin didn't get!
He's super excited about everything. Like he'll get all excited about Rocky the Robot Truck... then minutes later he'll see his train set and get excited about it, too!

Mom got us a Wii. Thank-you. We love it!

Chris got me the Wii Fit Plus. Love it!

I video taped Chris doing the hula hoop!!!

Tom and Sue loaded us up with lots of Wii games!
Santa brought Cabela's Big Game Hunger 2010 - complete with the gun.

I think my brother Levi likes this best!

We've bowled, played baseball, and so much more.
We're a family of Mii's. :-)

An old family at that!
The Wii Fit gave both Chris and I the Wii age of 40!
Calvin's 23!

I thought we were all in decent shape!

Chris and Calvin surprised me with an iPod!

Chris always gets me great gifts!
I always think my gifts to him are lame, but he's a guy and likes things like a 4 ton floor jack for Christmas!

Chris helped me make homemade cinnamon rolls for Christmas morning.

They didn't turn out quite as fluffy as Mom's... but, we'll do better next year!

Today is December 28th. Calvin and I are enjoying a restful day at home. Later, I'll bundle him up to play in the snow.

I hope each of you had a Very Merry Christmas! Wishing you good blessings in 2010! As Calvin has already told me, "Santa is already watching for next year! So, you better be good!"

Incase you're wondering...

2009-12-22T21:10:00.000-06:00

Wal-Mart is out of practically everything.
Regular (non-light) sour cream, bacon bits, ranch dips packets, regular sausage, and on and on. I was there tonight. Some shelves are bare!

The Date

2009-12-20T10:56:00.000-06:00

Last week Chris asked me out on a date. The rest of the week I felt giddy like I did when we first started dating as I prepared for our big date. Friday night we had a date... a real date. First we dined at Ruth's Chris Kitchen in Saint Louis. Then, we headed to the Fabulous Fox Theatre for A White Christmas. It was sweet and romantic - things you rarely hear me say.

We found our seats, ooh'd and awe'd over the beautiful theatre, and then he asked the question. "Do you have my wallet?" I searched my purse - nothing. I had it in the car as I put the cash back in after we left the parking garage after dinner. What had I done with it??? It must be in the car.

A White Christmas was fabulous. I loved it! Would watch it a dozen more times if I could. Chris even enjoyed the musical. What a date. What a date!

After the show, we walked to the car. Searched it high and low. Got out the flashlight and looked all around the outside of the car. Nothing. I can only assume his wallet was on my lap and it fell out of the car when I got out.

Chris called Discover to put a hold on his card. Turns out someone had been out charging on it while we were in the show. Same with our MasterCard and our debit card. Just our luck! He had to call the Saint Louis police department to make a police report. What drama. Luckily, the credit card companies and our bank were easy to work with and we feel reassured that they've taken care of everything.

Christmas List

2009-12-18T12:22:00.000-06:00

I got this from Steph at Watching Airplanes. If you wanna play, copy and paste these questions into your own blog post.

1. Have you started your Christmas shopping?
Yes. And I'm finished! Woo-hoo! It seems to take me entirely too long to get all of my shopping done, but finally - this morning the last gift arrived.

2. Tell me about one of your special traditions.
So many traditions. Mom's Christmas Eve morning. Grandma's Christmas afternoon. I guess you could also say another tradition is for me to over buy!

3. When do you put up your Tree?
The weekend after Thanksgiving.

4. Are you a Black Friday shopper?
Yes. I actually enjoy the hustle and bustle of the stores!

5. Do you travel at Christmas or stay home?
Last year we traveled to Disney World over Christmas - to escape Christmas here. But all of the other years, including this one, we go to nearly a dozen different Christmas parties within 30 miles of our house.

6. What is your funniest Christmas memory?
My brother Jake making vomit noises/guestures at Mom's Christmas breakfast. It's a long story, or rather a rude one towards a particular person... so all I can say is that it was freaking hilarious!

7. What is your favorite Christmas Movie of All time?
All of them! Rudolph, Frosty, Polar Express, and The Grinch are my favies!

8. Do you do your own Christmas Baking, what’s your favorite treat?
YES, with the help of friends!

9. Fake or Real Tree?
Both. Our official Christmas tree is real, courtesy of Althoff Tree Farm. They're so good to us. The other tree I put up with pretty ornaments is fake. I better not forget to mention Calvin's itty-bitty fake tree in his room.

10. What day does the actual panic set in to get it all done?
I'm a planner. With thorough planning, there will be no need for panic. :)

11. Are you still wrapping presents on Christmas Eve?
Nope. Most are already wrapped. All of the presents (except the ones Santa will bring) are under the tree already. Of course wrapped in coordinating wrapping paper. :)

12. What is your favorite family fun time at Christmas?
Christmas morning when it's just us and we get to soak up all of Calvin's excitement.

13. What Christmas craft do you like the best?
Other than Christmas candy - none.

14. Christmas music? Yes or No, and if yes What is your favorite song?
Baby It's Cold Outside is a favorite. :)
I'll Be Home For Christmas brings a tear to my eye when I think of our troops and myself when I was overseas during Christmas.

15. When do you plan to finish all your shopping?
Like last week!

Now it's your turn to copy and paste these questions into your own blog post.
Merry Christmas!!!

What Keeps You Stress Free

2009-12-15T15:26:00.000-06:00

Today my therapist asked me what I do for me that keeps me stress free.

My immediate answer was: Cut & Color ever 6-8 weeks.

Clearly, that wasn't what she was asking for. She wanted to know of something I enjoy doing daily to get my mind off things. Without any thought, I blurted out: Iron and Fold towels.

How lame am I?

What do you on a daily basis to keep your stress levels down?

Santa Drives A Semi

2009-12-14T09:02:00.000-06:00

Yes, you read it right: Santa drives a semi! I saw him with my very own eyes!

Yesterday, on our way to Grandma's we drove by Siemer's. I could hardly believe it when I saw Santa in a red shirt and a Santa hat - with of course a fluffy white beard sitting in a semi talking on his cell phone. I begged Chris to turn around so we could see him again. Santa waved at us! OMG! We had to turn around one more time to get to Grandma's. And sure enough, he waved at us again!

I don't know who was more excited: Calvin or me! It was the highlight of my day that's for sure!

I hope you weren't naught yesterday, just nice because Santa was in the area checking on boys and girls. I hope we made the nice list!

Merry Christmas!

Morning Chat With Calvin

2009-12-11T08:31:00.000-06:00

While laying in my bed with Calvin this morning we had the following conversations:

Calvin: Aaron Dad doesn't know everything like you.
Me: Neither do you.
Calvin: But I'm learning it!

Calvin: Mom, when I get older I want to be an astronaut.
Me: That sounds great! Will you fly me to the moon?
Calvin: I can't tell you. It's top secret!

Dear So and So...

2009-12-10T18:22:00.000-06:00

Dear Calvin and Cooper,
I love you guys. You know that. But I do not love that you dumped packing peanuts all over my clean living room floor and proceeded to stomp on them. What were you thinking???

Love,
The house cleaner

Dear McD's Sandwich Maker,
When someone asks for a cheeseburger with only ketchup, that does not mean you need to soggify the bun with loads of ketchup. If you think you were doing us a favor, you didn't. You caused a mess. If you thought you were being funny, you weren't. I cussed you all the way to Newton.

With no thanks at all,
Frequent McD's drive-thru customer

Dear Wise Men,
I know it's windy outside, but could you be big and strong and quit blowing over?

Respectfully,
The lawn decoration picker-upper

Christmas Wishes From Our Family To Yours

2009-12-08T14:43:00.000-06:00

Ramblings... On and on and on...

2009-12-07T15:58:00.000-06:00

Calvin was ecstatic to see the snow this morning! His expression was priceless!

The snow was pretty... now it's just a bunch of useless mud.

St. Nick came Saturday night. Calvin's boots were filled with goodies!
This is my last full week of school. :-)

Next week is finals. Boo!

The flip side is I'll have a couple weeks off!

I'm just about finished Christmas shopping!
Last night Calvin asked if God will give us a brown baby.

I had to explain that if a Mommy and a Daddy are both white, it's almost definite that the baby will also be white... otherwise, Mommy will have some explaining to do!
He still didn't get it and I didn't want to get into the birds and the bees, so I explained how his friend Daelyn has a white Mommy and a brown Daddy. He's starting to understand.

Dawn and Tiffany are coming over Friday night and Saturday to make Christmas candy! I cannot wait to have all that good food to eat!

Fudge, truffles, rock candy... Mmmm!

Karen with Foot Locker's customer service is on my shit list! If I could have reached through the phone to slap her, I would have! How hard is it to change someone's shipping address? And ever heard that the customer is always right?!? It is not my fault that THEIR customer service department lacks the sufficient resources to act on emails from customers in a timely manner. However, Karen repeatedly told me it was my fault. I don't like Karen. Karma will catch up with her... I just know it.

Needless to say, I will probably never buy from Foot Locker online again.
Chris pointed out that I should just be happy I got to talk to an American with customer service! Way to look on the bright side, sweetie!

I.C. Class... And on a mission to find a MAN!

2009-12-03T19:55:00.000-06:00

Big shout out to my first time readers from our I.C. class! Enjoy the blog. Feel free to leave comments as anonymous, just please put your name w/in the comment. :-)

Those in my I.C. class know our fellow classmate, Miss K. needs a man. We're on a man hunt! Miss K. please email me at Christina@SugarSweetDesigns.net with full criteria. :-)

Miss K. is young, smart, witty, and attractive. But somehow, she remains single. Somebody take this girl out and show her a good time! She deserves it! If you or someone you know is interested, email me at Christina@SugarSweetDesigns.net.

The. Gift.

2009-12-03T08:36:00.000-06:00

Yesterday was Mom's birthday. I'm pretty sure she turned 29, but maybe I'm wrong... 28??? ;-) Tis the season to kiss some butt! Hehehee!

Anyway, I think Mom had a pretty terrific birthday. Calvin and I took her out for lunch at the Hilton. It was the perfect place to celebrate Mom's big day. We gave her cards and a very appreciative gift. We walked the Convention Center hall to look at the gorgeous Christmas decorations. After she left us, she met up w/ Poppy for more birthday fun. She went home with a fire place! What a gift!!! :-)

At lunch, Mom presented Calvin with a new Christmas book and had a bag for me. She said it would make me cry, and wanted me to wait til I got home to open it. It was touching. So special. Mom's Betty Crocker cook book! It is a part of our family. See, we moved a lot. But one thing always stayed the same: That cook book in our kitchen.

Inside she had a very touching card and a special letter to me, telling me the story of my original family: Mom, Dad, and Me. The letter was full of love, kindness, and fond memories of their time together. Things I'd never heard, because we were never allowed, or rather avoided ever talking about. This special cook book was a gift at Mom's wedding shower back in 1981, before she married my Dad. The cook book was a part of the home they shared. And I will treasure it every single day.

Thank-you, Mom. Olive Juice.

For You, Mr. Underwear Sniffer...

2009-12-01T11:51:00.000-06:00

This post is to comically call out the two guys in one of my classes that openly admitted that they don't do laundry often. According to them, throwing dirty clothes in a dryer with a dryer sheet will get the stinch out. One said all of his clothes are on his bedroom floor. He sifts through to find the clean from the dirty. All of the girls cringed.

It gets worse...

I asked how he knows which underwear are clean.

He doesn't. He said it's okay to wear underwear more than once before washing them. He said it's obvious when a pair is dirty. Skid marks??? We all got a good chuckle out of this.

The Gagging Stinch

2009-11-28T13:14:00.001-06:00

Thanksgiving night, Chris and I decided to have a romantic dinner alone at Pizza Hut. (Calvin was at his dad's.) We were seated amongst the only other two tables with customers. We ordered our drinks. Then... IT happened from the booth behind me...

The worst smelling fart ever!

Seriously, it was far worse than the worst hog farm plus a skunk.
Chris said that fart would have cleared out the deer cabin... and that's pretty bad!
I was gagging!

As the stink-table laughed and cheered at this monumental-stink-o-rama accomplishment, we contimplated leaving. Then, the waitress moved us - to the other side of the room at my request. But the fart spread like the plague. It lingered and lingered and lingered. Even when our pizza came, we could barely eat.

The stink-table kept laughing. They were jerks. Smelly, dirty, skid mark jerks. They stunk up our Thanksgiving dinner.

Needless to say, we are not in the least bit hungry for our Pizza Hut leftovers.

Giving Thanks

2009-11-25T14:01:00.000-06:00

I have so much to be thankful for. Life happens, time flies, and often I take my life for granted. But today and for the rest of the holiday season, I'm going to take time out of my schedule to focus on the things I'm most thankful for: Chris, Calvin, and the rest of our family.

Chris is amazing. Period.

Calvin... you all know how remarkable he is. Just Calvin, because that sums it up.

Our family. We have a great big family. We have the luxury of making memories with them on a regular basis. They are supportive and loving. They're our family.

Today, I'm extra thankful for Grandma Betty. She's my rock. She always has been. I'm a little spoiled by her and I'll never deny it. Her and Grandpa have never once let me down. Today I realized that I have no clue how to turn my torn up bread into dressing. But Grandma does, and hers is the best. 1 quick phone call later, and she happily agreed to make it for me. I love her for that... and for so many other reasons.

I wish you all a very happy Thanksgiving! :)

Dinner Prayers

2009-11-18T08:23:00.000-06:00

At dinner each night we say a mealtime prayer followed by going around the table to pray for something specific. Then, around the table again to tell God what we're thankful for.

Calvin's getting pretty good at this mealtime tradition. He prays for the sick, the poor, the homeless, Grandparents, cousins, for me, for Chris, the deceased, families of deceased, etc. He puts quite a bit of thought into his prayers. The last few days he has prayed that Stinky and Stinky Dink don't get eaten by a bear while they're mushroom hunting.

Wondering who Stinky and Stinky Dink are? Imaginary friends. :-)

I introduce to you, The Colonel

2009-11-15T18:27:00.000-06:00

INTRODUCING... The Colonel

My new PC is The Colonel.

All programs are installed... thanks to Chris. :-)

I'll be starting to make-up some work tomorrow.
Elizabeth, you're at the top of my list!

Angel Tree

2009-11-14T11:09:00.000-06:00

Our family is getting into the Christmas spirit. We started shopping yesterday and are tagging our tree at the Althoff Tree Farm later today.

This year, we've adopted a child from the Salvation Army's Angel Tree. Although we're providing the money, the shopping is all on Calvin. We want to teach him the true meaning of Christmas, including generosity to those less fortunate. I am looking forward to sharing this experience with Calvin, and witnessing the warmness in his heart as he gives to our Angel.

RIP Dina

2009-11-12T12:32:00.000-06:00

Dina passed away last night in her sleep. We feel good knowing she went without any pain. Needless to say, we tried to resuscitate her this morning with multiple reboots and boot up disks... but it was too late. She was gone.

Please bear with me as I grieve the loss of my laptop - ie: I can't get any work done til a new pc arrives.

For the time being, I'm using our old, old, old pc for email and school.

Proudly Serving American Legion Post 924

2009-11-11T15:51:00.000-06:00

Today, I am not reporting as the SrA I once was in the USAF. Today, I am writing as a proud member of American Legion Post 924. Today, I'm reminded especially of our fallen comrades of whom I will be eternally grateful for. My heart aches for their families. Today, I am reminded of the war stories I've heard from Grandfathers. I've said extra prayers for the men and women serving our country today, especially Amy, Caine, Bobbi, Patricia, Matt, Scott, and Michelle. I sleep well at night, knowing they are protecting me. And, today I am flooded with memories of my four years of active duty in the United States Air Force. The friendships I made abroad will last a lifetime.

Along with our church, the American Legion Post 924 held a Veteran's Day ceremony at the cemetary on Sunday. It was touching, to say the least, to stand next to men who fought the wars over the years.

I think Keke said it well today: A veteran - whether active duty, retired, National Guard or Reserve - is someone who at one point in his life wrote a blank check made payable to the United States of America for an amount of 'up to and including my life.'

7 Faithful Years... And Now She Will Retire With Coach & Michael Kors in the Back Of My Closet

2009-11-10T16:24:00.000-06:00

I need a new coat.
Okay, need is an exaggeration because I know there are tons of people out there that need a coat...
any coat...
so, I will humbly say that I want a new coat so badly.
I hope that sounds less spoiled.

The last time I got a new coat was December 2002.
Tiffany, do you remember the shopping trip? Wasn't I w/ you?

It's my American Eagle navy toggle peacoat.
It's hard to believe that I've been almost 100% faithful to it for almost 7 years.
Wow... one of my longest standing relationships. Impressive! :-)

For the last few years, I've thought of getting a new coat.
But I never, because they're so pricey - and well... I'd rather spend my money on Calvin.

After a lot of thought and debate,
I've decided to let my AE peacoat retire with dignity, before she loses a button or comes unraveled.
She's been a good coat. Faithful. Dedicated on those cold winter days.
But, she needs a rest.
I owe her that much.

So, I ordered a new coat today.

I hope my new coat looks as good on me as she does on the Victoria's Secret model!
Of course it will... I mean, it's me... it will look fabulous... right??? ;-)

If you're in the market for a new coat, Victoria's Secret has 25% off wool coats til Wednesday night + free shipping on orders over $50 by using SHIP50 promo code.

Some may be wondering what I'll do with my old coat.
Donate it?
I pondered the thought, but after 7 years, I'm a little...
okay, more than just a little attached to her.
I can't part with her.
My inner pack rat still needs her.
I assure you that she will have a luxurious retirement in the back of my closet with other retired favorites like handbags and shoes. :-)

Wishing I was getting some ZZZ's!

2009-11-09T01:16:00.001-06:00

It's 12:34 A.M.
I'm awake.
Spring 2010 registration started at midnight.
I couldn't sleep, in fear of not getting into my needed classes for graduation.
I'm not the only one trying to register.
The system is crawling.
I haven't even been able to login, yet!
Grrr...
It's 12:47... Nothing.
Brant just facebook'd me.
He's in the same boat as I am.
If you're familiar w/ LLC's network at all, you know it's slow.
I'm sure they don't prepare for this much activity on IRIS.
But, they should.
Innocent people are losing sleep.
I love sleep. I'm good at it.
12:51... Nothing but failed attempts to get into the system.
I've decided that if I'm not in by 1:30 that I should go back to bed.
1:00... Nothing yet.
What's taking these pokie people so long to register???
PLEASE... please let me in!!!
I know I won't sleep well unless I get registered!
In other news, Calvin fell pretty hard tonight.
He hurt his jaw and cried himself to sleep...
On Chris's lap... because he's Chris's best friend today.
But, I'm still Mom.
So, I'm sleeping w/ him... because I worry too much.
He tosses and turns and might as well do cartwheels!
The kid is nearly impossible to sleep with.
Ok... I honestly can't imagine that many people on IRIS at 1:04 A.M. to bog the system down.
I'm starting to wonder if LLC's IRIS server is down from previous traffic.
Seriously, their network is slow... even on a good day!
Any millionaires out there that would like to donate a new network infrastructure???
It's 1:08... I'm feeling lucky.
Maybe this time I'll get in!
Or maybe not.
It's hopeless.
I'm not getting registered tonight.
1:13 A.M.
Giving up til morning.
G'Nite Everybody!

Christmas Time Is Coming!

2009-11-04T15:53:00.000-06:00

I'm as excited as anyone else about the Big Man in Red shimming down our chimney in a few weeks. I love Christmas. I used to not. But, having a child definitely changes that. I LOVE shopping for Calvin. Some may say I have a slight addiction. So, Christmas is an excuse for me to go all out for Calvin! I've been known to go a little overboard.

Anyway, back to my point... I'm as excited as the next person for Christmas. BUT, won't all that Christmas candy at Wal-Mart go bad before Christmas? Is it necessary for Kohls to play Christmas music already? Serious... I caught myself humming "Leroy the Redneck Reindeer" in the shower this morning. (If you aren't familiar with this holiday classic, I highly recommend you YouTube it.)

We just wrapped up Halloween last weekend and already we're planning for Santa's big arrival. The poor Turkey gets overlooked every year. Before you know it we'll be celebrating Black Friday Instead of Thanksgiving!

I don't start Christmas shopping til the day after Thanksgiving. Black Friday is a family tradition shared among my favorite aunts. We hit up the stores early (way before day break), separate to cover more stores when they open, stand in long lines, spend entirely too much money on "good deals", have lunch and a daiquiri at Red Lobster, do a little more shopping, start driving home... when Aunt Dana will insist that we stop at Tuscola... and possibly Mattoon... and even maybe Effingham Wal-Mart, and then we go home - to sleep because Black Friday is a workout!

Some may wonder why we do all of this every year... I mean, it sounds exhausting to say the least, but it's part of our holiday tradition.
And we wouldn't have it any other way. :-)

News From Our Neighborhood

2009-11-03T20:23:00.000-06:00

Most my neighbors are standing outside right now, watching the fire fighters, wondering what the heck is going on. I'm inside writing about it.

There are 4 fire trucks and a long line of volunteer fire fighter pick-ups on the middle road of our subdivision. After watching the first fire truck pull up to a neighbors house, I headed over. I stopped by Kourtney's to see if she knew what was up. Then, I proceeded to the house with the fire fighters in and out of. Turns out, there was a fire in the chimney. I am very relieved to report that everyone is okay. :-)

The Cutest Deer Hunter There Ever Has Been

2009-11-03T13:02:00.000-06:00

Calvin
Halloween, 2009
The Deer Hunter

Calvin picked out his own costume this year. It only seemed fitting that he dress up as a deer hunter. However, he'll argue that he's a deer hunter everyday - minus the beard.

I thought it was a lame idea. Apparently, I didn't know what was cool. Wednesday, Calvin's class dressed up at school. While I was there getting Calvin changed I heard at least 5 other kids say they wanted to be deer hunters, too! Calvin: the trendsetter. :-)

OTHER NEWS:

I've been waiting to announce the arrival of my niece. I am hopeful her mommy will post pictures soon. :-)
Some dyke (I'm assuming she is) made weird noises at me today at school... twice. Like sexual-animal noises. Ugh. She was pretty scary.
My advisor is out of the office the whole week. Ummm... Spring registration starts at 12:01 Monday morning. In order to graduate, I need to register asap that morning to get into the needed classes. I emailed her... but, it would have been nice to know she would be out of town for a conference. That's LLC for ya.
Going to the TEF Spaghetti Supper tonight. We get to bring Caleb with us!!! YAY!

Church seats and praying...

2009-11-01T19:37:00.000-06:00

This morning in church, I didn't see any side pews empty for the 3 of us to sit together. We split up, but it got me thinking... when there's 1 person in a pew, why does the next single person take another pew? Why not just sit together so families can stay together?

Praying... This may sound silly, but sometimes I feel guilty for asking for something in prayer. If I'm praying to a specific saint or Jesus, I try to thank the saint or Jesus for what he has done for me - before I list all of the things I need or want - even for someone to get well. I try to make an effort to be thankful for more things than I ask for, but still I feel guilty. Am I weird?

Product Reviews... Because I love You!

2009-10-28T11:08:00.003-05:00

AquaFresh iso-active Toothpaste

This toothpaste rocks your mouth out! Seriously. It leaves your teeth feeling clean and your breath fresh as ever! I highly recommend it!

Bloomen Nutrition Prenatal Vitamin Chews
Last Summer, while pregnant, I could barely choke down the yucky prenatal vitamins. Let's face it, they don't exactly taste like gum drops and lolly pops. It got to the point that they made me nauseous. I searched high and low for fun flavored prenatals... why can't they taste like Flintstone's??? I came across these from Bloomen Nutrition. They're chewable prenatals flavored with citrus and ginger blossoms. Not bad to take at all. Prego, or planning to be... give these a shot!

Frizz-Ease Moisture Barrier Firm-Hold Hair Spray
Hands-down, the best hair spray I've used in a very long time. It does exactly what it says it does, "Creates an instant style-supporting barrier; helps seal out humidity & combats frizz, rain or shine." LOVE IT!

"Happy birthday toooo Daa'aad!"

2009-10-22T20:54:00.002-05:00

The first words out of Calvin's mouth this morning were, "Happy birthday toooo Daaad!"

Today was Chris's 28th birthday. It started with presents and blueberry pancakes. Followed by a mid-afternoon nap, playing with the leaf blower, and dinner where the cowboys eat (Lonestar). Although he also had to work a little (including fixing my car), I hope he still enjoyed ever minute of his special day.

Calvin making Chris's red velvet birthday cake.
We added orange and blue gels to the icing and sprinkles on top to make the cake extra special. :-)

Chris, words cannot express how happy you make me each day. So today, as we celebrated your birthday, I felt like I was the one getting the biggest gift of all... you.

Monopoly

2009-10-22T17:42:00.000-05:00

I'm slightly obsessed w/ McDonald's Monopoly. I'd love your help! I'm sure we could work out a deal. ;-) Here's what I need.

Boardwalk for $1,000,000

Ventor Avenue for $25,000

Kentucky Avenue for $10,000

Tennessee Avenue for $5000

Virginia Avenue for $2000

Vermont Avenue for $1000

Shortline RR for $500

Wordless Wednesday

2009-10-21T08:00:00.002-05:00

Ramblings

2009-10-20T18:30:00.000-05:00

This is Chris's birthday week!!! Thursday is his birthday. I can't wait to give him all of his gifts!
Shopping was successful today with Dawn.

I got what I went for and not much else.

Last weekend Chris and I were in Champaign to do some shopping.

We didn't buy one thing.

I am still in shock!

Calvin has a bowling field trip on Thursday. Needless to say, he's ecstatic.
I am getting around to uploading a month's worth of pix at dropshots.

I would have had a ton of great shots w/ Gma in them... but she doesn't look at the camera. We gotta work on that. ;-)

Last weekend I had the pleasure of shooting the senior pix of 2 beautiful girls.

Their pix turned out amazing.

Yesterday was rough. I was in a funk and cried a lot.

Some days are just harder than others.
I still miss my Dad so much. And losing Pickle&Chips seemed so hard yesterday.

This weekend we're heading to Chicago!

Looking forward to some time w/ Bill & Elizabeth.

I'm still waiting for the arrival of our niece... Can't wait!
Calvin wants to know why all of the "stupid drivers" are always out when we are.

Guns and Racism... My kid?

2009-10-18T10:02:00.000-05:00

I had an interesting encounter with a woman this weekend. I'm going to start out by saying that at this point I'm pms-ing and probably overreacting, but I'm angry. And was so angry last night that I had to bite my tongue to keep from lashing out at her.

You guys know all about Calvin. He's my 4 year old hunter of all things that move. From rhino's in Africa to deer to birds - he wants to shoot 'em. Let me give you a little background. I previously was against him having guns. But, after trying to fight it for so long and watching him use anything imaginable like clothes hangers as guns, we caved in last Christmas. We have a strict 'no shooting people' policy. He knows the rule and for the most part, he sticks to it.

Back to my story. We were at someone's house for a party. I packed a few toys including a toy pistol for Calvin. I was upset to find out another mother took Calvin's gun away because her son wanted to play with it. She overheard Calvin tell me about it so she explained that she's anti-guns (they are very liberal) and didn't want her son playing with it. My point is: Does that make it right to punish my son?!? If she had a problem with her son playing with the guns, she should have handled it with her son - not mine. I don't feel like we're close enough for her to take something away from Calvin.

As if that wasn't bad enough, she did it AGAIN! Seriously... I was pissed to say the least.

It gets worse.

Somehow poop stories always get brought up. I told Calvin's funny poop story about how he says, "I pooped my brains out" and how he used to say, "I pooped out Baby Brother!" And then about the time he said, "I pooped out Obama" followed by, "I flushed him down the toilet."

She had the audacity to tell me not to say that because it's racist. She went on and on. I could practically feel the steam escaping through my ears. Did she just call my son a racist?!? Did she really just call my son racist?!? I about came unglued. I wanted to slap her silly for being so ignorant. Ignorance truly is the best word I can think of to use in this situation. I don't believe that just because we are white that we have to watch every single thing we say in fear of another race taking it the wrong way. If it is innocent and we didn't mean it to be racist then it's not. Period.

You never mess with Mama Hen... I get defensive the second anyone says anything bad about Calvin. This crossed the line. He's 4. He knows nothing of racism. He once described a boy in his class as 'brown' because that was a good adgective. He would never say anything hurtful about anyone.

If you know me... you know I always have something to say. To explain how incredibly angry I was last night... I said little to nothing at all. I will probably completely avoid this person in the future because of her inconsiderate actions towards my son.

If he enjoys pretending to hunt with toy guns and once pooped out an Obama, should he be crucified or is that good old fashion imagination?

Shout out for beautiful bows!

2009-10-16T14:32:00.000-05:00

Recently, I was shopping for hair bows to give Wendy at her baby shower for Blueberry. I had no idea bows were sooo expensive! Seriously, $7.99 for 1 bow?!?

I called my friend Becky for help. We made tons of bows in one morning - yes I got to help a little. They turned out great! Best part was that she was very inexpensive!

If you live in the Effy area and would like her contact info, leave a comment or email me.

The Scary Dream

2009-10-16T08:24:00.001-05:00

I woke-up at 0620 in a panic and a puddle of sweat. I had a bad dream.

There were bad guys that shot lots of people with machine guns. We ran away. There was a familiar house, that I'm sure I've dreamt about before with a secret set of rooms with a secret and magical hiding place. However, when I got to that room this time, for the life of me I couldn't figure out the magical hiding place. I hid in a cabinet but was caught.

They let me, Mom, and Calvin live. Mom went along with their evil plan to make us eventually kill a nice elderly couple down the road that sold apples. I had a plan to eventually turn them into the cops.

One of the bad guys looked familiar, but I don't know where I know him from. The other bad guy was my cousin, Jason A. I couldn't turn to Jason for help because it was obvious he was loyal to the head bad guy.

When I confronted the head bad guy about letting me go home temporarily to keep up the image of a normal life so nobody got suspicious he was very calm and agreeing. It was creepy. I knew then that I wouldn't leave alive.

Then, Mom's huband (Clay), my uncle Kevin, and a few others arrived. The mean guys were welcoming and gave them beer. But, I knew they'd be dead all too soon. I wanted to tell them to run away, but I feared the bad guys would kill Calvin if I opened my mouth.

I woke-up.

Thank goodness. But, I was still freaked out. I even called Chris to tell him about my scary dream. Soon, Calvin was awake and safely in bed with me and the world was right again.

Are you a dream interpreter? If so, what does my dream mean?

M.K.W.A.: The Story Of My Birth

2009-10-15T07:33:00.001-05:00

This week, Mama Kat's prompts are about mom's and birth stories. I always find humor in mine. Enjoy.

February 6, 1982 my parents, Doug & Karla, went to a wedding... just so happens that it was Bridget's parents' wedding. To answer your question, yes this is the same Bridget that performs miracles with my hair.

Back to my story. Mom was seriously prego - like ready to pop. Dad must have known I'd be arriving very soon and decided to party really hard at the wedding reception. To say the least, Dad got drunk.

They got home. Dad passed out. And Mom's water broke. Good timing, right? ;-)

She couldn't get Dad to wake-up completely. So, she called my Grandma Betty (Dad's mom). Grandma rushed over, driving through the blizzard... did I mention there was a blizzard? Anyway, she haulled Mom and Dad back to her house to give Dad some time to sober up before going to the hospital.

Finally, when the time came... and Dad was a little more sober... they went to the Hospital. Dad always wanted to name me Josephine after my Grandpa Joe. Mom wanted to name me Dahnika. Since Dad wasn't in the best shape at the hospital, Mom had the opportunity to name me whatever she wanted. She decided to compromise and name me Christina. Everyone was happy.

That is my birth story. What's yours? Visit Mama Kat to get your prompt.

Introducing Self Reliant 101

2009-10-14T11:21:00.001-05:00

Let me introduce you to a new blog on the block:

Self Reliant 101.

The author, Student, provides funny, entertaining, and educational posts about getting back to the basics and doing things the old fashioned way.

Need a recipe for a wood-nurishing dusting spray that can double as a salad dressing? She's your gal! Stop by Self Reliant 101 to welcome Student to the neighborhood. :-)

Odds -N- Ends

2009-10-13T12:56:00.000-05:00

Been through Montrose lately? What's up w/ the Chuck Wagon? I've heard the "fair-like" food is good. However, I drive by roughly 6-8 times a week (route to school) and rarely see anyone there. Do people really stop by?

And their kiosk that sells things like rebel flags, do people buy that stuff?

Clearly there is a market I'm unaware of.

Are you a gift giver? You either are or you aren't - and usually there's nothing wrong with not going all out. Some people are great gift givers that put time and thought into every gift... that's me. I take pride in my gifts. The best part is seeing the smile on the recipient's face when they open it.

My question to you is this: Do you give as much to non-givers as you give to fellow givers?
I'd never thought about this til recently when others couldn't cough up under $10 to go in on a special gift with me. They didn't really get the full gist and it honestly upset me a bit. I would probably not put them in the gift giver category.

It got me wondering if I'd give them special gifts like this in the future or if I'd give lame-o gift cards or nothing at all.
BTW, the person I got the gift for is also a gift giver and very generous. And I know this person would do the same for us.

Have you started shopping for Christmas, yet?

I haven't. And I won't until the day after Thanksgiving. It's my tradition. To me, it's not Christmas shopping w/o bumper carts, a headache, and a daquiri at Red Lobster mid-day. :-)

My sister, Tiffany is a Junior at THS. Sunday was Ring Day! I wonder if hers was as memorable as mine. Good times with good friends!
Calvin and I watched The Wizard of Oz Sunday night. He now says, "Follow the yellow brick road" all of the time. It's getting annoying.
Next week is Super Studly Husband's Birthday Week! I started shopping today! He's gonna have a good birthday.
Dina is dying. (my computer)

She turns herself off whenever she pleases... yesterday 5 times!

She strategically plans to turn off when I'm in the middle of a project or work. I hate to admit that her war tactics are helping her advance to winning the war against my sanity.

However, ultimately I will conquer when I replace her sassy ass with a new computer! HA!

$1 Quarter Pounder w/ Cheese Day - TODAY!!!

2009-10-09T13:04:00.002-05:00

The newly rebuilt McDonald's on Keller Drive in Effingham is having killer deals this month! Thanks to Dawn, I'm now in the know and sharing the good news with you! ENJOY!

*** All day, Everyday through October 25th: $1 Large Sweet Tea, $2 any small specialty coffee, $1.19 double cheese, $2 milk shake, 25 cent small coffee, 25 cent ice cream cones. ***

Limit of 2 specials per order or per car

Oct 9: $1 Burrito / $1 Quarter Pounder w/cheese
Oct 10: $1 cinnamelts / $1 6 pc chicken nugget
Oct 11: $1 hotcakes / $1 Big Mac
Oct 12: $1 hotcakes / $2 Any angus burger
Oct 13: $2 Big Breakfast / $2 any happy meal
Oct 14: $1 Sausage McGriddles / $1 Big Mac
Oct 15: $1 Bacon, Egg & Cheese Biscuit / 49 cent hamburgers and 59 cent cheeses
Oct 16: $1 Burrito / $2 Quarter pounder w/cheese
Oct 17: $1 Egg McMuffin / $1 6 pc Chicken Nugget
Oct 18: $1 Cinnamelts / $1 Filet of Fish
Oct 19: $1 Hotcakes / $2 Any Happy Meal
Oct 20: $2 Big Breakfast / $1 Big Mac
Oct 21: $1 Bacon Egg & Cheese Bisuit / $2 Any Angus Burger
Oct 22: $1 Sausage McGriddles / $2 Any Angus Burger
Oct 23: 11 am - 2pm - Help break the drive through record , receive a free hamburger or cheeseburger coupon w/every drive through order
Oct 24: $1 Burrito / $1 Quarter Pounder w/cheese
Oct 25: $1 Cinnamelts / $1 6 pc chicken nuggets

1 Mom + 2 Dads + 1 Little Boy went to the TGS open house

2009-10-05T19:51:00.000-05:00

Today was officially like our 1st school function. The TGS had an open house. Calvin was so excited to show off his classroom. All 4 of us went together - Me, Chris, Calvin - and his dad, Aaron. Many of you must think this had to have been quite awkward. Like I told Chris before we went, "It's only as awkward as we make it." And we walked through the school like we were no different than the rest of them. :-)

Calvin,
You have absolutely no idea how lucky you are to have not one, not two, but three parents that love you dearly. Three wonderful parents that want to work together to raise you. Growing up, I never knew divorced/separated/not-together parents could find common ground in their child. We all love you very much. Don't ever forget it.

Love,
Mom

25% Off at Tanger Outlet Mall

2009-10-03T09:03:00.000-05:00

Tuscola's Tanger Outlet Mall has something cool going on. If you donate $1 to breast cancer research, they give you a coupon for 25% off a single item at select stores like Coach, Old Navy, Tommy Hilfiger, and many others. Look here for a complete list. Dawn and I were up there a couple weeks ago - I got 25% off the already discounted and clearance items at Coach! That's HUGE!

Yesterday I went up there on a mission. Ended up at Old Navy because they have a huge Cardigan/sweater sale - $15!!! They had the pink sticker on their door saying they honored the Breast Cancer Pink coupons - but seriously the chick working their was clueless. They don't sell the coupons there but they honor them. My point is this: 1.) That girl was stupid and truly not able to do her job completely. 2.) Go to Coach, Wilson's Leather, or the Visitor's Center to get your 25% off coupons - then go back to stores like Old Navy and use them.

I got 25% off my $15 cardigan! Pretty sweet deal! This promotion ends October 20th!

McD Complaint

2009-10-02T08:08:00.001-05:00

Have you ever ordered a Fish Fillet at McDonald's?
Asked for cheese on it?
Well, I have. And I have a complaint. 1/2 of a piece of cheese??? C'mon! I didn't ask for half my sandwich w/ cheese and the other without. It's weird... and it's cheap on their part. I think they charge $0.30 to add cheese... and all I get is half of a piece?!?

There ya go... my daily complaint.

Announcing my new nephew, Landon

2009-10-01T12:13:00.000-05:00

Meet Landon.
He's 1 week old and possibly the cutes baby!
Yesterday he got to meet his Favorite Aunt, Christina.

Fuzzy Wuzzy

2009-09-29T13:55:00.003-05:00

Ya'll know the Fuzzy Wuzzy rhyme - ya know Fuzzy Wuzzy was a bear... Well, Calvin has a different take on it.

Fuzzy Wuzzy was a bear
Fuzzy Wuzzy had no hair
'Cuz somebody pulled it all out and shot him.

I don't know where he learnt this, but it's cute as can be when he says it! I think it's the hunter in him that thinks the bear needs shot. :-)

2nd Annual Walk To Remember

2009-09-28T18:12:00.000-05:00

Come join us for the 2nd Annual Walk to Remember.
Enjoy a serene walk through T-Town park remembering friends and family that have gone before us.
If you were there last year, you can attest to how special this walk is.

Sunday, October 4, 2009
11:00 A.M. - 4:00 P.M.
at the Teutopolis Park.

Click here for more information.

I can't get you sick from my computer!

2009-09-25T08:21:00.001-05:00

I'm sick.

I've been under the weather since Monday evening. I haven't been to school since Monday. I don't remember the last time I was this sick for this long. It all started with a runny nose. Next thing I knew I had sinus pressure, body aches, fatigue, and a headache. Yesterday the coughing got worse than before. Today, I woke-up with a tight chest and a bad cough. Talking makes me cough. Ugh. Have you met me? I'm a talker... so not talking sucks!

The absolute worst part is that I have a new nephew and I'm too sick to go see him. Ugh. It's killing me!

Anyway, I'm wondering if a breathing treatment would help with my chest. I have an appointment at the VA Clinic this morning to be checked out.

Sugar Sweet Designs is expanding!

2009-09-23T16:56:00.001-05:00

Morning Smiles

2009-09-22T08:17:00.000-05:00

Early this morning my sweet little angel snuck into bed with me. He snuggled and was full of morning hugs and kisses. He even said, "Mom, I want to hug you to the sun!" That's a lot of hugs!

On another note, my pal Rachel started a blog. She's funny so expect good posts in the future! Check her out! :-)

At this time I want to publically announce that Gretchen is the worst blogger ever! J/k! I love ya! But, I miss your blog posts. Not sure if you realized it, but you haven't blogged since May!!! You have an amazing daughter, a military husband, a brother that just got married and also had the eye thing, another brother that's just plain funny, a mom that's a hoot, and a dad that could write the book. You have tons of stuff to write about... please come back!!! I miss you!

I cried as they turned off The Light...

2009-09-18T15:53:00.000-05:00

Today was the end of CBS's daytime drama, Guiding Light. I have been a faithful follower of the Lewis, Cooper, and Spaulding family dramas all of my life. I grew up with a mom and step-mother that both watched and naturally as I grew, I kept up with the Guiding Light.

I was saddened when they announced the end was near. We all wondered how it would end - a cliff hanger? They bowed out gracefully with a week full of episodes packed full of heartfelt and tearful good-byes. And the very last scene completed Josh & Reva's love story.

After 72 years on the air, I wonder how daytime t.v. will never be the same.

School Picture Day

2009-09-17T08:09:00.002-05:00

I forgot today was school picture day. Some may call it fate that Calvin showed up to school in his favorite faux vintage Indiana Jones shirt for picture day. Lucky him, right? Not really 'cuz I rushed home, sprayed Wrinkle Release on a polo, and promptly returned to school with it.

Although we're not using the school pic as the official pic of the year here - other kids will have wallets of him and there's the class picture... and well, Calvin is usually very well dressed and I wasn't letting his first school picture be any different.

On my way home from his school, I thought about how rushed I was for a Wednesday... then... I remembered... it's Thursday! YAY! Have a Terrific Thursday!

"Hey Jackass..."

2009-09-15T15:50:00.001-05:00

Dear Jackass,
You are a complete dumbass for trying to pass 3 trucks at one time! If I wouldn't have slammed on my breaks to avoid the head on collision, you'd likely be road kill right about now. You better count your lucky stars that I saved your life today!

Sincerely,
Driver you nearly had a head-on collision with today.

Dear Wal-Mart Employee Jackass,
Watch where the heck you're going! You came 2 inches from running my son over with a flat panel t.v. on your flat bed cart at the entrance of Wal-Mart today. The customer you were taking care of noticed and kindly apologized. You walked right on by. You're a jackass! Then, when I caught up with you by the door greeter and called you out - you acted like a bigger jackass! How dare you look at MY son like it was HIS fault for YOUR stupidity!!! I wanted to.... Ugh... kick you in the shins or give you a titty twister or something really mean like that! I was pissed! By the way, Todd (I think that was his actual name), you are freaking ugly! You're so ugly you think you have to go to the gym to bulk up to get women. And still you look like a fat ass hog! You disgust me!
Consider this your warning! I'm a crazy-ass mom... and next time I might not let you get away so easily!

Sincerely,
Crazy-ass Mom that wants to whoop your ass!

Ladies and Gents in the area - if you are at the Effingham Wal-Mart and come across this jerk, Todd, I kindly ask that you please step on his toes or run into him with your cart! Thank-you.

Hi-Ho-The Dairy Oh - Our Couches Are Finally Here!

2009-09-12T09:43:00.000-05:00

The much anticipated new additions to our house finally arrived!!! We custom ordered our Natuzzi furniture from Jodi at Wright's Furniture in early March with an expected delivery date 4-6 months later. The wood came from Brazil while the leather and assembly was in Italy. Then, over the big pond it came. Across many states, and finally... by the hands of my cousin Aaron and another delivery guy - it made it to our home.

People get furniture every day... so why are we so excited? For starters, we had never seen the shape of couch and sofa in our leather choice. So, it was a little bit of a mystery. Also, in June we were accidentally misinformend that our couch was coming sooner. So, we bought a 50" flat panel and hung it above the fireplace. Since then, we've sat on a recliner and lawn furniture (in an undecorated room) to enjoy the t.v. Trashy, right?!?

For those of you that have met my sectional couch - don't worry, we still have it! It's in the front living room/office. I'm not sure I will ever part w/ it. However, we appreciate all of the generous offers to take it off our hands! :-)

Special thanks to Mom for helping us decorate after the sofas arrived. With her keen decorating sense, and Chris's engineering/carpenter perfectionism, it looks nearly perfect - just a few more things needed to polish the look. Now, on to decorating the rest of the house!!!

Big News!

2009-09-10T09:07:00.003-05:00

My gal pal, Billi Lou - from Walnut Street Cards - has some BIG news over at her blog! If you're in the need of cards, stationary, announcements... or now... a wedding/event planner - CHECK HER OUT!

Today's Creative Recipe

2009-09-08T07:25:00.004-05:00

For my Today's Creative Blog post, I'm sharing my loaded baked potato soup recipe. For this recipe, I combined a few different recipies to come up with something that makes my mouth water! ENJOY!

INGREDIENTS:

5 cans diced potatoes
2 cans chicken broth
2 cups water
1 tsp salt
3 cups milk
4 tablespoons melted butter or margarine
4 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2-5 tsp steak seasoning - I use Weber's Chicago Steak Seasoning
4 cups shredded cheese of choice - I use cheddar cheese
3oz Oscar Mayer bacon bits or any fried bacon

DIRECTIONS:

In a large pot over medium heat, combine potatoes, chicken broth, water, and salt. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat, cover, and simmer until potatoes are tender, apx 30 minutes.
Once tender, stir in milk. Continue to cook for 5 minutes.
In a small bowl, combine melted butter, flour, and steak seasoning.
Stir into soup. Increase heat to medium-high and cook until thick and bubbly (apx. 25 minutes). Stir often. Soup may not get really thick, and that's okay. It will thicken when you add the cheese in next step.
Remove from heat and stir in cheese and 3/4 of bacon.
Garnish bowls of yummy soup with sour cream, leftover shredded cheese, and remainder of bacon.

Other ingredients you could add: Celery, carrots, green onions, chives

A negative calorie cookie theory! I'm a freaking GENIUS!

2009-09-03T19:24:00.003-05:00

Monday Calvin and I made my famous chocolate chip cookies - ya know the ones with the pudding in them to keep them soft for months. I have to give Carolyn credit for introducing me to this delicious recipe years ago. All gazillion calories were scrumptous!

I ate a few... okay... like a half dozen on Monday.

Then... my tummy rumbled and I made a mad dash for the loo.

Same thing happened Tuesday, Wednesday, and today.

It's obvious that it's the cookies.

So... my new theory is: Eating my delicious homemade chocolate chip cookies will result in a positive response from your tastebuds, cardio work-out from the mad dash, a colon cleanse to say the least, and ultimately - by my skewed calculations - amount to negative calories.

Just call them celery with an added flair! :-)

Weekly Writing Assignment From Mama Kat

2009-09-03T07:30:00.002-05:00

Mama Kat's Weekly Writing Assignment

This week, I'm choosing prompt #5: Share your friendly advice for someone you think needs it (ie your mother-in-law, other drivers, cell phone users, etc.) (inspired by Jill from Scary Mommy)

My friendly advice is for my mother.

Mom, your job sucks. The people stress you out to the max. You had a recent trip to the E.R. after the stress got so bad you got hives - and that was like the 30th time you'd gotten hives at work! It's just not worth it. The people aren't worth you getting upset about. They clearly don't give a crap about you. I dearly admire you're "I give a shit" quality. You are so passionate about everything you do and you take things to heart. These are commendable qualities... but they're taking a physical toll on you.

The whole family has listened to countless hours of the disappointments you've faced at work. We truly care about you. However, nothing is changing. We can't fix it and we don't know what to do for you. So, either bear your cross silently - or - Quit your job. Get motivated to prepare for the next great adventure in your life.

OLIVE JUICE*

Writings on my back

2009-09-01T12:19:00.003-05:00

Today in Interpersonal Communications, we did an exercise where everyone taped a piece of paper on their back and all of the students wrote 1 thing/phrase to describe what they thought of the person.

As we were getting started, I jokingly said, "Write nice things about me. I'm not a fan of constructive criticism!" Later, on the drive home I thought about that line. Ever heard the phrase, "There's some truth in every joke?" Well, that was never so true as today. I hope my classmates said nice things about me!

Today's Creative Blog

2009-08-31T22:13:00.002-05:00

If you haven't been to Today's Creative Blog yet... YOU are missing out! Kim provides links and reviews and tidbits to other blogs that will inspire you to do wonderfully creative things.

I'm not the most creative person on the planet... but I admire those who are! Most of my creativity is aimed at web/blog designs. And... right now I'm having a blog design giveaway! Check it out here.

The 1st Day of the next 15 years of school...

2009-08-31T21:21:00.001-05:00

Today was a very big day for Calvin. It was his very 1st day of pre-k. 2 years of pre-k + 1 year of Kindergarten + 12 years of school = 15 years... this was the first day of the next 15 years at T-Town school. Of course he was styln' in Tommy Hilfiger and new Nike Shox. :-) He is in Mrs. Bierman's class. He absolutely adores her. Lucky for me, she's my cousin and I can trust that she will take very good care of Calvin.

I took him to his classroom today. Isn't that like a requirement for Mom's? :-) At first glimpse of his classroom and new classmates, he was overwhelmed. After getting him settled, I headed out... trying not to tear up.

Aaron (Calvin's dad) came over to greet Calvin when he got off the school bus. Calvin's extra lucky because Caleb's grandma is the aid on Calvin's bus! We have a close family and do lots of stuff with Lisa and Gary. They've become a part of our family. She waved like a proud grandma as Calvin got off the bus.

Like planned, Calvin took me on a date to Pizza Man for lunch to celebrate his 1st day of school. Unfortunately, it was not the celebration I had anticipated. Instead, he confessed that he did not like school, that he made no friends, and some boys wouldn't let him go to the bathroom. He said the best part of school was the bus ride and that was so much fun that he wants to return to school tomorrow.

I'm a little bummed. Calvin is a likeable kid. Everybody that meets Calvin loves him. He is generous, intelligent, funny, and has a great big heart. He doesn't understand that other 4 year olds aren't just like him - that some of them misbehave more often than he does. I'm a tough mom - seriously. I'm hard on him, set high expectations, and I follow through on punishments. Anyway, my point is that today he didn't meet a new bff. He's worried that he won't make any friends. I am sure it was just the first day jitters. Tomorrow will be a better day. And, I'm almost 100% sure that by Friday he will love school and have lots of new friends!

I'm feeling generous... and want to give YOU something!

2009-08-28T14:37:00.003-05:00

I feel like I'm at the starting line of a new beginning. With my new found positive outlook on the future, I've gained a sense of generosity. Okay, truth be told, I love making new blog designs and desperately want this one to find a new home. Thus a GIVEAWAY!

Here's how to enter:

Leave a comment on my blog.
Give me some advertising love on your blog via a post. Afterwards leave me another comment.
Visit my website: www.sugarsweetdesigns.net. Find my button on the website and add it to your blog for a third chance to win!

Drawing will be done randomly on
Thursday, September 3rd at noon.

Survived!

2009-08-25T11:37:00.003-05:00

I am capable of getting out of bed at 0631!
I survived!
First day of Fall Semester went well. Got some great guidance from an instructor. Dropped film appreciation. Picked up Principles of E-Commerce. I feel good about the switch. Got to see my Aunt Dawn on campus, too! I have a positive outlook on this semester. I think it's finally happening... our bad luck is ending... good things are in store for the O family! :-)

You... You really had the balls to roll your eyes at ME?!?

2009-08-24T23:15:00.001-05:00

Wal-Mart.

Shopped.

Check-out line.

Put most of my bags in my cart as she checked me out.

She finished.

I paid.

I proceeded to put rest of groceries in cart because she never bothered.

Annoyed.

Then, I saw the last bag: bread AND frozen pizza!!!

With a flick of my wrist, a yanked down another bag for my bread.

She glared at me then rolled her eyes.

!?!?!

WTH?!?

She's the dumbass that put my soft bread in the same bag as hard frozen pizza!

I'm no professional checker-outter. But, I am a semi-professional shopper who has learned the bagging tricks of the trade. She isn't the first Wal-Mart checker-outter to flub up the bread bagging. Every checker-outter should know that bread gets its own bag --- or goes with other soft items such as potato chips. Wal-Mart needs to impliment bagging training immediately!

Dreading the new schedule

2009-08-24T13:37:00.007-05:00

I've never denied my dislike for the A.M. hours prior to 0900. I'm not a morning person to say the least. I'm a nightowl that wishes she could be a morning person. I've tried to motivate myself - but in the end, the comforts of my warm bed have out-weighed the benefits of getting up.

Most of the good classes for me are in the mornings. So, I registered Calvin for A.M. pre-k. Both of us will start school promptly at 0800. That's one whole hour before I like anyone to speak to me. You could call me Oscar The Grouch in the mornings!

I'm dreading the new schedule. Calvin and I have become accustomed to sleeping in until after 0800 followed by our much needed wake-up time laying in bed watching cartoons. Yes, I know... many of you are reading this thinking I live the life! I know I'm a very lucky lady! Due to a couple semesters of laxed class schedules that never started before 0900 and 2 Summers of staying home taking only online courses, we have no schedule. This is a huge change from the woman I once was that operated like clock work. I kind of miss that girl...

Tomorrow is my first day of Fall semester. The thought of my 0630 alarm makes me cringe. Getting Calvin up, feeding him an actual breakfast, and getting us both ready for our day... what most women do every single day... seems so foreign to me. I'm sure within a few days we'll be on our new schedule that includes a bedtime for Calvin.

Since we're implementing a new schedule, now seems the best time to address my need for time alone to get work done. Working while Calvin's home is nearly impossible. Therefor, I am working on setting up a weekly schedule where he will be away 2 afternoons a week.

Tomorrow morning as you're flying through your morning routine as usual, say an extra prayer that I survive the pre-0900 hours... or rather that the other students survive. ;-)

Bring on the Mtn Dew!

The Deer Cake Post

2009-08-23T09:14:00.000-05:00

I apologize to those who have been waiting to see a picture of the deer cake.

Calvin's birthday party/our housewarming party was a complete hit. :-) Tons of our friends and family were here to celebrate. Calvin got entirely too many gifts. The kids loved the water slide. The cake was perfect. And, the food was a hit. :)

The. Scale.

2009-08-20T10:52:00.000-05:00

Aunt Dawn's scale stopped working. I always weighed myself at her house, so I wouldn't get obsessed with a scale at home. Since hers quit, I bucked up and bought myself my very own scale... to share w/ Chris and Calvin. I've had it since yesterday afternoon and have only weighed myself 3 times. Unfortunately, this scale appears to actually work correctly, unlike Aunt Dawn's which would read three different weights within 30 seconds. Mine weighs high - really high... :-(

Anyway, I'm not obsessed with the number. I'm glad to have a scale so I can track my progress. See, I never completely lost all of my baby weight from Calvin. Then, with Pickle&Chips, I gained a few pounds - not sure if the pounds were from being prego, or the stress I was under. No matter, I packed on a few pounds. It's time to lose the weight. I've been jogging and working out a lot more. It feels good. Now that I have a scale, I will be able to better track my weight-loss.

With 53% of the votes, Glasses #1 won!

2009-08-18T22:22:00.005-05:00

Glasses #1 won the poll!

These were the ones I was leaning towards getting. Calvin agreed these were his favorite, too. These glasses are very similar to #3, but $125 cheaper! Surprisingly, Mark was the only one to vote for the expensive Juicy Couture glasses, #3. He must have expensive taste!

Thanks to all who voted. I will definitely take all comments into consideration. Dawn is coming over to vote on Wednesday. Ultimately, I will decide after Thursday's cut and color with Bridget at The French Quarter.

It's hard to believe that after about 10 years without any glasses, I'm going to be wearing them again. The USAF always told me my vision was perfect. A couple years ago I went to Wal-Mart's eye doctor because my eyes were bothering me, but he found nothing - infact, he said my eyes were better than perfect - whatever that means. Well, after this week's appointment at Drs. Sehy & Jones in Effingham, it was determined that my eyes have been compensating for what they lack and that's why my left eye has been feeling so strained lately. The doc admitted that previous doctors would probably have known if they would have done a more thorough exam including dilating my eyes. Anyway, no need complaining about the past. I'm just relieved that the doc figured out the problem. Unfortunately, with my allergies, contacts aren't really an option --- at least not from April - September when my allergies are the worst. So, get used to seeing me in my new glasses. :-)

Your vote can decide my new look!

2009-08-17T19:25:00.000-05:00

I'm getting glasses. Since my new glasses will be an everyday accessory to my look, I want some input - other than my darling husband's. Thanks babe, you've been a good sport today! Now it's time to hear from the girls. :)

I understand they're all pretty similar, but I'm sure you will find some differences and pick a favorite. There is one pair that sticks out to me, but they are by far the most expensive, and I'm just not sure if the glasses are worth the price tag. I'm curious if that pair is the favorite of everyone else.

Thanks for your help!

Glasses 1

Glasses 2

Glasses 3

Glasses 4

Vote above at the poll. Poll closes Tuesday at 5:00 p.m. cst.

THANKS!!! :-)

Calvin's Big Huntin' 4th Birthday :)

2009-08-13T22:05:00.000-05:00

Today, my precious baby boy turned 4. I don't think I'm supposed to call him a baby anymore, although to me, he always will be. :) I'm full of emotions happy, sad, and everything inbetween today. I wish I could put it all into words, but just can't.

It's safe to say that Calvin had a TERRIFIC 4th birthday! :) It started at midnight. Yup, we stayed up just to start the celebration early. At exactly 12:00 a.m. I sang Happy Birthday to him. Then, I told him he was getting to be an old man and had gray hair! He thought I was serious and darted off to the bathroom to inspect. He returned, telling me that he did not have gray hair, but he was much bigger now and that he could do much bigger things now that he is 4. :) Seconds before he fell asleep, he told me he was going to wake-up happy because it was his birthday. I knew then that we would have a fantastic day.

Calvin woke-up to find a heaping pile of presents. He was thankful for everything he got, but mostly excited about his new bow and arrow! Then, just when he thought there were no more gifts we surprised him with one more...

An 8 point white tail buck!!!

He was soooo excited to have a deer to shoot!

After shooting the deer at least 2 dozen times, we headed to the Kountry Kitchen to have breakfast with some friends and family, including one of Calvin's besties, Kole, Mimi, Grandma and Grandpa G, Amber, and Chad & Lori. His pancake even came with a candle! We sang happy birthday to him. He love all the attention! :)

After hours of hunting with Kole, a long nap, and ice cream at Homewood Grill with Kole, it was time for Calvin's birthday dinner at Buffalo Wild Wings - his choice. The waitress was awesome and even made a special birthday announcement for Calvin. He got birthday ice cream, too! Yum!

What better way for an outdoorsy 4 year old to end his birthday than...

A campout with his super cool dad and Kole!!!

Yes, right now as I type this, Chris is probably trying to get the boys to calm down and get some sleep. They're camping outside in Tommy's tent. Calvin and Kole were sooo excited about the campout!

Calvin, I hope you had a terrific 4th birthday. You have given me four wonderful years full of memories that I will cherish the rest of my life. You are one of a kind and I know that with your attitude and big heart, you will do great things with your life. I look forward to the years ahead. As you grow older, and leave for preschool in a couple weeks, don't forget about your mom. I'll always be your friend, your cheerleader, and your rock. Thank-you for being the little boy that I can always count on for a smile, that shows how to live by example, and the little boy that makes me very proud to call you my son.

Love,
Mom

Vacations can be so much fun, but coming home can feel oh so good!

2009-08-09T20:36:00.001-05:00

We're home!

O family Branson vacation was great! I can't speak for everyone on the trip, but Chris, Calvin, and I had a FANTASTIC time! We really enjoyed Branson - from the swimming - to the go-kart racing - to the boating - to the beautiful Branson landing. Everything was enjoyed with the O family. Lots of memories made. :-) Special thanks to Mom & Dad O for the vacation. You guys rock - there's just no other way to put it!

My pix are here. Enjoy!

Calvin's Birthday Cake Request

2009-08-04T16:07:00.000-05:00

Calvin asked for a deer on his birthday cake. I insisted that he'd rather have something else on it... a deer?!? Finally, I got it through my thick head that this is his birthday cake, not mine. He is a little hunter that shoots anything real or imaginary in our backyard - or Africa - or when he's in the Army. He and his friends have quite the imaginations. :-) So, the deer fits Calvin and it's sure to be a hit w/ his besties.

I just got off the phone with Mary Niccum. She chuckled a little at the deer request, but gladly agreed to do it. I just hope she gives the deer a big rack!

I'm sooo totally screwed

2009-08-03T20:27:00.001-05:00

Just got an email from one of my online instructors. I completely forgot to schedule a test for last week. I overlooked it on the schedule. I never took it because I didn't know a test even existed. I am so angry with myself right now. My grade is totally f'd! I am soooo totally screwed!